Ongoing Matter
Life-changing parenting conflict and feeling dismissed
Classification: serious relationship/family conflict
Status: Open
First seen: 2026-08-10 11:32
Last seen: 2026-08-10 11:32
Evidence count: 4
Participants: SPEAKER_01, SPEAKER_03, SPEAKER_04
Keywords: life-changing, good parents, dismissive, selfish, work out, relationship
Summary
A tense conversation where SPEAKER_04 is at a loss, SPEAKER_03 asserts they are good parents and questions SPEAKER_04's tone, SPEAKER_01 calls it life-changing and says they have tried to discuss before, accusations of dismissal and selfishness, and acknowledgment of difficulty.
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Evidence
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SPEAKER_04 says they have to go and do not know what else to do. SPEAKER_03 says they are good parents and will work out what happens, but questions SPEAKER_04's tone. SPEAKER_01 calls this a life-changing thing and says they have tried to talk about it before. SPEAKER_03 accuses the other of dismissing them and being selfish. SPEAKER_01 says it is not easy and acknowledges they know.
SPEAKER_04 and SPEAKER_02 confirm the reward is 1727 and the current amount is 750. SPEAKER_04 says the transfer will take a few seconds, requests the money transfer, and SPEAKER_01 provides account number 9811-5591. SPEAKER_00 apologizes for a 30-second delay, and SPEAKER_01 thanks and says goodbye.
One person is upset about being ignored all weekend and not getting replies, while another explains they were busy or drunk. They talk about having planned to meet, then remember how they used to go to the Morrisons car wash together when they had a Corsa. One person suggests going to the car wash after food and sends a picture because the other does not check messages.
Driving to meet Demanta at the phone shop. I'm glad she's coming because she won't suspect me of not getting her phone and reading her messages. Father is very distressed about money and I feel guilty. I'm running out of fuel and have only £16. I keep sending Demanta money and she says she'll pay back. She's booked a holiday with a friend instead of with me. I need to get over her, but I love her. I'm parking now; sh…