SPEAKER_04 says they have to go and do not know what else to do. SPEAKER_03 says they are good parents and will work out what happens, but questions SPEAKER_04's tone. SPEAKER_01 calls this a life-changing thing and says they have tried to talk about it before. SPEAKER_03 accuses the other of dismissing them and being selfish. SPEAKER_01 says it is not easy and acknowledges they know.