and she replied back to me no no no I am coming and I'm bringing it over later on

so she wasn't even giving me a time and I replied back no no no Larissa you're not coming

as I said we already have plans

oh my god she doesn't take no for an answer

the thing is I just find it so personal in someone else's house

you can't force your way into someone else's house

and then she replied back okay that's all

okay oh my days

and I said Marcella this girl is crazy

and Marcella was like just explain to her no

but I said Marcella I don't have your patience

Marcella no please no

she just wanted to tell me

she just wasn't taking it was she

yeah

so then she told me in the park

the thing is people take me by surprise

you've seen my calendar

this is how it looks like

and

and

and

and she said to me oh what are you doing

weekend 24 25th of July

it's my birthday

I don't know if I just asked you something

but that's the thing

because I already told you

but Romanians

what they make you do

they make you pass things in

you don't make any plans

and then she'll tell you a few days before

well I wasn't really doing anything anyway

do you know what I mean

so I don't know now what to do

because I don't want to invite myself

but she did say I want to celebrate my birthday

I haven't decided yet

I want to do a barbecue

I don't want to invite you and Susanna

and obviously the families and the girls

have you got any plans

and I said to her I don't think I've got any plans

that weekend

but usually I said to her there's a weekend

before we go on holiday

so I like to keep those weekends free

for the last minute shoppings

but I said to her that's fine

depending on the day

I'll just have to go and do the shopping on the next day

so I said I'll make it work

and she said okay okay

I'll let you I'll let you and Susanna more know about it

I'm like okay

okay okay

but because I'm

she hasn't told you yet anything

no

so I don't know what it is

because I was telling her you can't come to my house

because I already have plans

oh was that after

yeah it was after

because she told me in the park

like maybe she changed her mind

I'm alright about that

I don't I don't

oh I don't know

when you told me I said yeah okay I'll pray

and I thought okay

how am I gonna get her

I don't know anyone like for grown-ups

and we don't go to like

just a massage voucher

she likes to go to massage

hmm

to that type place

yeah

and then will you go

well I can get her something else if you get her the massage voucher

I can think of something

there is there is

I was keep I was keep wanting to go

oh thank you guys

I was keep wanting to go

there is a Japanese head spa massage

and I've never been

but it's a Romanian lady I've heard of

and apparently it was meant to be really relaxing and good if you like head massage

so I could get her the other voucher if you get her the the massage

yeah yes I mean you're right I mean I don't know like buying things for

for people it's really hard like presents like that

yeah experiences I guess

yeah

it's always the best thing

yeah

thank you so much for that that looks nice

oh no no thank you for inviting me over

oh come on

and for

but come would you like to drink that coffee or

oh I already had the coffee

if you have something cold for me

cold yeah yeah well even if you don't have cola but Bena has the Pepsi now

yeah yeah yeah that's fine if you've got yeah

like only in the fridge though

it is

should I put this in the fridge or maybe I'll find some ice for you

I think it's fine as it is

you give me a glass and I just put a bottle in the fridge afterwards

I don't know how Ben drinks it because if he doesn't drink it cold

just leave it outside

he drinks it cold but he probably has some opening but I don't want to do it

in the park glass

so we were talking about how much she's struggling and she was mentally exhausted and so on

so I said look it looks like you were exhausted all the options and her mom was there as well

and I said look as a friend I said I haven't really been telling people but I went to see a

psychologist you know after what has happened to me and I wasn't I said this is something you might

consider she doesn't even want to hear about it and the next thing you know she's trying to light

up a cigarette in the park

you know either with all the

difficulties

I said what are you doing