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Status: completed · Language: en · Source: Behnam · Captured: 2026-05-19 17:14:15 · Who can tell one thing or put it out? When you sent me that, first I was thinking that it was like accident, pregnancy.

Unknown

Who can tell one thing or put it out?

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Behnam

When you sent me that, first I was thinking that it was like accident, pregnancy.

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Deimante

I thought so as well.

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Behnam

And if it's like that, then maybe Mark and Ingrid are gonna look...

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Behnam

Maybe Ingrid I wanna be like second mama or look after her a lot, but no.

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Behnam

Yeah, she's...

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Deimante

She even wasn't looking after her motherly.

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Deimante

Kind of was, kind of not.

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Deimante

How I know from other people, but I never know about this.

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Unknown

Yeah, but you know, she was young as well.

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Unknown

That's why it's better when you...

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Unknown

She was only 25 or 25.

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Unknown

Oh, okay. Really?

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Unknown

No, maybe 25 or 22 or 21.

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Unknown

Less must be.

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Behnam

Only I've known her for 10 years, and she's only just 31.

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Behnam

Yeah, it's okay. It's been...

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Behnam

She was less than 20 after me.

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Behnam

How old were you?

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Unknown

One year, yeah.

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Behnam

Yeah, because she...

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Behnam

I've known her for 10 years.

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Unknown

So how...

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Behnam

Last...

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Behnam

We went last year to her 30th birthday.

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Deimante

I was still in Chilean home.

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Deimante

By the time she had been...

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Behnam

From when did you leave?

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Unknown

I don't know.

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Behnam

So you were less than 18, and she's three years, more than you, or two?

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Unknown

Mm-hmm.

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Behnam

I think she's been here since she was about 20 or 21.

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Behnam

And it was before that, obviously.

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Behnam

I don't think she was even 20.

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Behnam

Maybe 20 only.

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Behnam

Sometimes it's okay not to, because it's sad, but it's for the parents.

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Behnam

The people who's left is more important.

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Unknown

I don't go to see where is mine, because they never had a life, you know.

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Deimante

But they did, right?

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Deimante

Yeah, technically yes, but...

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Deimante

What are you talking about?

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Behnam

Even their baby, they died in the hospital after a few months.

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Unknown

That must be nine months.

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Behnam

Yeah, but it didn't have grow up to...

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Behnam

Yes, and yes, it's true, but if it's easier for her not to make a big deal about it,

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Behnam

it's healthier for her, otherwise she could spend all her life, like, going to grave.

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Unknown

I think what she's doing...

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Behnam

Do you agree, and then you feel all your life, like, was it the right idea?

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Unknown

Yeah, for example, your wife's baby wasn't born, right?

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Behnam

It was born.

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Unknown

Yeah, but my sister got nine months.

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Behnam

I know. I'm not comparing.

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Unknown

It's different, because, you know, you have that connection with your baby.

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Behnam

I don't blame her. I think whatever people have to do to survive...

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Unknown

Yeah.

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Behnam

Like, because my auntie, for example, that's talking about people who was older who died.

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Behnam

But she lost her husband and her boyfriend, both of them less than 60.

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Behnam

They weren't old or old, they were very young and healthy, and then got cancer and died, both of them, separately, obviously.

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Behnam

But only thing about her life, she goes every day to all the graves of the people she lost, you know.

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Behnam

She's in France now, and why she's stressed about going?

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Behnam

Because how is gonna be the flowers on all the graves for her parents and her boyfriend and husband when she comes back?

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Deimante

That's why I just prepared to burn it, you know, so you don't need to...

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Behnam

So my point is, I think she takes it too much.

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Behnam

I'm not going to...

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Behnam

My uncle and my grandparents both was bad.

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Unknown

Yeah.

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Behnam

And, but they have a stone, you know, in these nice gardens near Middlesbrough.

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Behnam

I'm never going to visit that one.

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Unknown

And she got a bench, you know, sometimes in the park they have a bench and it was very nice she got.

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Behnam

She worked hard and she sorted with council in the woods where my grandfather and my grandmother used to walk.

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Behnam

There's a bench and it's got their name and their dates and things on it, and in loving memory of this one, we love our grandparents and parents.

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Behnam

And it's in a beautiful place in the woods, you would like it, it's like a forest and a valley, it's called the Valley Gardens, at the bottom is like a park with flowers and stuff, but it's a long way up the hill, you walk through trees, it's really nice.

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Behnam

And it's in a beautiful way, we're doing a video.

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