Like you said, you're not sure what it means that she wants attention.

It means she wants everybody to talk about her, everybody to think about her,

and everybody to do what she wants.

It is kind of that thinking about her in a different way.

I'm saying, I think, don't let her have the attention.

Don't let her see that she can make you upset,

even though you're upset when she's mean like that,

not letting you in that shelter that you built together.

Don't let her see that she's making you upset.

It's the only way she'll change.