She thinks that I'm getting stuff because I'm getting angry, so she has to get hungry, so she gets stuff.

Exactly. And she wants people to be angry. She wants people to treat her like she's very special.

She wants her mummy and daddy to be like that with her.

She wants the teachers to give her special care, special attention, and she thinks that she's a bit naughty and they give her special attention to ask her to be good.

And she does that with you because she doesn't want you to play with other children, so she makes you feel bad and makes you feel like you have to be nice to her all the time, so she'll let you play and do what you both want to do.

I think she's, she's, what happened?

What happens is, when we get really like...