She'll open the door and she'll be,

Anna, where are you? Come back. I want you to come in.

Yeah, because she feels like,

oh, she doesn't want to come in my model anymore.

Exactly, but she wants to have control.

She wants to have power and not let you in.

And what you can do, you have to be clever,

like, hide what you really want a bit.

And even if you really want to go in that model,

don't let her know because then she has control.

She wants that you have to ask her to come in.

She wants that you get upset if she won't let you in.

So you have to be nice to her so she'll let you in.

But it shouldn't be up to her.

So if that happens, you could just say,

oh, OK, then bye, Jessica, I'm going somewhere else.

And then just go away and try not to think about her,

even if you're upset.

And I bet you...

She'll come and be nice to you then.