works as a she didn't know much english then but now she's like a senior radiologist in a hospital

in new york and they got they've got very nice uh lifestyle looks like from the family business

and they got two daughters so that one she was three when they came here

and uh then they had another one and my brother i've not been in touch with them ever but

my brother talks to our married as well in new york and uh going to medicine as well i think

but the mother talks to me oh you must come because i went to new york a few times

and didn't see them yeah she's oh you should have told me and come and see so one day i hope to

because new york is very expensive to stay

yeah that's right

yeah

she also just stayed for a few weeks with us i mean and we had nice

oh yeah yeah no i know she's she's nice and uh new york is very expensive to get a hotel so

yeah the family that's family the rahbar family

like definitely there could be movies about them and the ali who's in london now who worked here

his mother is much younger sister from my grandmother but i don't think she ever was married

to the father or something how i know she was like always partying drinking like behaving a bit free

and as far as i know he's connected with his father and he's got brothers and sisters but

his father was a traffic police traffic policeman or something like that and i think the pregnancy

came from her she was driving speeding or something and she didn't want to i think i

understand like that she didn't want to pay the fine and she ended up pregnant

something like that anyway

yeah yeah they are direct cousins

ali no but ali see she had the baby as far as i understand she was younger

ish when she had a baby and wasn't planned and i think that

he spent most of his childhood with my grandmother so my dad never wanted relatives to come here and

on him but he ended up with Said and Ali before Ali. Ali was only 20 when he came

here and I remember he didn't know any English or anything with his wife who

was she was probably 18 at the time I was about 12 he used to just shout every

night on the phone with his mother because she sent him Ali I mean she was

looking after him until he was 20 or so and he didn't he's not very bright as

well probably didn't have any prospect so she sent him to my dad to take care

and he didn't want and they were just fighting about that all the time

yeah because

one time one of my cousins wanted to come and I was saying they want to come and send this and that

because you're responsible for every aspect of their life there's a reason

that they want to send their young people who is not getting around

well that's what I mean the ones who are not bright are not capable to they want

to get rid of them that's the reason.

the ones they want to get rid of yeah and there's this vision it's true for

anybody from any country in England must be very good everything's easy you

must make lots of money you know you can afford to support families and but it

doesn't work that way exactly as well

I like that some of them come some of them move they're doing very they're wise they're doing

yeah it's a completely different thing if it's them

I'm sure they could do good things with them but there because they had a

good situation they wouldn't risk it they wouldn't leave it

well I say yeah if they're capable people then they wouldn't be looking to move

because they always had issues with them

well that's what happened with Ali that's what happened with Said