and her they stayed in touch and she's with me as well on facebook sending family pictures and stuff

and the divorce but she's a like a she works as a she didn't know much english then but now she's

like a senior radiologist in a hospital in new york and they got they've got very nice uh lifestyle

looks like from the family business but ex-husband has died and they got two daughters so that one

she was three when they came here and uh then they had another one and my brother i've not been

in touch with them ever but my brother talks to our cousin the guy and she got married recently

as well in new york going to medicine as well i think but the mother talks to me

because i went to new york and didn't see them yeah and she said oh you should have talked

come and see so one day i hope to because new york is very expensive to

stay yeah and iranian to be honest the hospitality is good yeah that's right and you you take care

of them when they're stuck she also just stayed for a few weeks with us i mean she meant it when

she said oh yeah yeah no i know she's right and uh new york is very expensive to get a hotel

yeah that's good to visit them well very complicated yeah the family that's family

family

and ali who's in london now who worked here his mother is much younger sister than my grandmother

but i don't think she ever was married to the father or something how i know she was like

always partying drinking like behaving free and there is a father he's connected with his

father and he's got brothers and sisters but his father was a traffic police traffic policeman

or something like that all right

her pregnancy came from a she was driving speeding or something she didn't want to pay

i think i understand like that she didn't want to pay the fine and send me the present

but still ali's grown daddy is same yeah rosa's growing that's all yeah they have

that cousin they've been in same business and but ali no no ali see she had the baby

as far as i understand she was young he actually when she had the baby i think she had to have

and wasn't planned and I think that he spent most of his childhood with my grandmother

so my dad never wanted relatives to come here and depend on him but he ended up with Saeed

and Ali Ali was only 20 when he came here and I remember he didn't know any English or anything

with his wife who was she was probably 18 at the time I was about 12 and he he used to just shout

every night on the phone with his mother because she sent him Ali she didn't want to come I mean

she was looking after him until he was 20 or so and he didn't he's not very bright as well

probably didn't have any prospects so she sent him to my dad to take care of him he didn't want

and they were just fighting about that all the time yeah I remember one time my one of my cousins

son father side wanted to come and Reza was

I was saying yeah they want to come and saying this and that instead of just

trying to avoid it yeah because you're responsible for every aspect of their life

there's a reason that they want to send the young people and it wasn't it wasn't the easy one

they were

that's what I mean the ones who's not bright are not capable to

they want to get rid of them they want to get rid of them they want to get rid of yeah

and there's this vision it's true for anybody from any country in England must be very good

everything's easier you must make lots of money you know you can afford to support families but it

doesn't work yeah no I happy he didn't come I like to some of them come some of because it was they

doing very the

they're wise they're doing yeah it's completely different hard work I'm sure we could do good

things with them but there because they had a good situation they wouldn't risk it they wouldn't

leave it if they're capable of people but this one