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Hello there.
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Hi there.
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Hi.
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That's all right.
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How are you doing?
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How's everybody?
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Okay.
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How about you?
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Yeah, yeah, I'm fine.
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Um making the most of the good weather time to catch up on on washing and tidying up.
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Good weather.
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Um oh yeah, we've got lovely sunshine here today.
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Windy but sunny.
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18 and a half of the cascades are lit here.
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Oh, that's a shame.
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Yeah, hopefully it'll get out for you.
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So yeah, did you manage to catch up with Bijan?
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No, I've not had a chance to find him yet.
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I've just dropped Anna off.
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I mean, I've dropped Anna off at gymnastics.
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I need to go to work and do some stuff for a few hours.
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Yeah.
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Find him after this.
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I don't know.
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He fought me yesterday.
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and he said, Oh, I was thinking of coming up, but last night, and Susanna was half asleep and I asked her and she got upset.
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But yeah, of course.
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I was
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Worried about
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That.
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It's always on me to do it.
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I'm not in the mood for.
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Yes.
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All right, she's really, really, really gone again yesterday down a lot.
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So, okay, I said, I talked with Bijan and he said, Maybe I'll go to Yarm or maybe.
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You can come and stay with.
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me.
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Yeah.
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But I said, Oh, that would be lovely if Graham comes down, because Anna would be so happy to see Peter.
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I was coming to see his father as well, and we deranged that.
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Yeah.
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Somehow, but I thought, Okay, we could invite granddad.
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around this evening and then tomorrow maybe you could come down.
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The only thing is Anna's got a party.
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Yes, I thought she had a party.
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You know about that already.
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So maybe Bijan and I could take her there.
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because I'll have to take her anyway.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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But I don't know.
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I don't know.
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Not uh.
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So the the bit I'd sort of talked with him.
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He was coming up to see grandad.
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Um.
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and that it and I was worried how things would be in in your home, but it was lit when I was talking to him anyway.
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Um yeah.
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So because I've been trying to find out
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Because he can't get into his bedroom at the moment, so I'm front of me trying to clear that out.
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But it's not neat.
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It's not neat.
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He can stay with us.
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And wife should have to drive another two hours there and back, you know, it could come.
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And it'll all be together.
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It'll be.
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lovely.
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Yes.
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Yes.
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You can agree with it, you know?
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Yes, so we.
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But staying everybody is a bit getting tricky.
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But what's everybody?
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I mean, for everybody to stay ours is where it gets.
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Oh yes, no, no, no, no, don't worry about that.
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If I came, I was just going to come down for the day.
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But he said, he was saying he might stay a bit longer.
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So he might stay till Monday.
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So he could stay with you like Saturday night and then at some point, Sunday, come up to me and stay the night with me and work from, because he needs to work on Monday, so he needs to work from home.
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I get it.
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So,
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If you came down on Sunday and we spent Just
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For the
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Day.
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And then.
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Yes.
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And then he was Monday he said he wants to go back.
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So.
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Yes.
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But yeah, either we see what he feels like as well.
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So he could have two days with you and work from from your
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Kitchen table on, on Monday.
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Um, and he could see grandad.
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Go back.
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Anna.
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On Monday.
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Anna's feeling, uh, you know, affected by Susanna.
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Right, so.
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Yes.
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She was so happy when he came before.
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Yes.
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Right.
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So if that's all right, well, he can stay two days with you and now just come down and visit.
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He doesn't have to come all the way up here.
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That wasn't I wasn't.
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Yeah, he doesn't have to drive.
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So then I don't have to stress about bidding and all that for the extra one.
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We've got plenty of room, but.
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Yes, yes, yeah.
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Um I'm I'm actually sorting out lots of bedding and things here and I didn't know if an extra set of bedding would be would be useful to you.
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Don't have it.
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It's just.
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No, I know it's the cleaning.
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It's the changing.
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It.
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Here, you know.
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Absolutely.
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Um if Bijan was to sleep in Susanna's bed, don't bother changing it for Bijan to sleep in it.
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It would just be afterwards, don't you?
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I know.
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Um because for Bijan,
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Yeah.
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It's the weekend we watched them anyway, so she's doing happy.
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Right.
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The washing machines on, I can see that.
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That's all I know.
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Right.
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Okay.
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Yeah.
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So I was worried about how how she was doing, um, and, and how she's
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Been a bit better now she's gone down.
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We had an appointment, you see.
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Right.
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Um, with Mrs.
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Tom Hanko, who's the wife of my surgeon.
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Right, yes.
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I recognise the name, yes.
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Because we're normally with Mr.
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Squall and he's our friend, even.
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And that you
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Said she was in it right here.
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This is Tampanga.
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and she says, looked over everything and she's come up with something new.
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Since the stillbirth, there's been two failed Epgrow transfers and there's no reason why.
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No, not.
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yeah.
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It wouldn't normally test why you got fed once if after when it's only two, but then again she's had three successful ones in a row at that stage.
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Yeah.
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So why they saw these.
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Why are they turning now?
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Something still in a womb?
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Yeah.
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Oh, well, when she had the steel bath, you may recall she had sepsis and she had to go back in and.
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have a surgical evacuation of the room.
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She had the, yeah.
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It turns out Susanna completely forgot, didn't know she was completely unaware and shot in the appointment.
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And I, said yes.
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And she grabbed the the folder and she's reading all the notes.
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And I said, This never happened.
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And it did.
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She blanked it all out.
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Well, yeah.
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Well, she would have been, she was on.
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drugs and things and she was so pooly.
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She was very unwell, yeah.
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Yeah.
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And it's possible that something happened.
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It's not a catastrophic, but it could be that there's something from the surgery left over.
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Right.
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Scar tissue in the foam.
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Upsetting it.
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Yeah.
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Right.
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She's in.
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I just can't believe I really think it's a, from my side, it's a complete mistake just for three minutes.
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We've got Anna and should be happy with that.
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I know.
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I know.
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But she she's determined so.
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But she needs to come to terms with that herself, which is very difficult.
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Will she will she talk to, does she have anyone that she can talk to about it?
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Yeah, she talks all day and all night to chat GPT.
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Oh, yeah, no, but I don't mean chat GPT.
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I mean, like, real, real people.
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You know, like the the lady from the church that's got the adopted child.
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I wondered if she'd had like difficulties and and might be able to.
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She had I mean
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She had a ruptured spleen and she she collapsed at home.
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Right.
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She had a ruptured spleen and she got taken in by ambulance.
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Right, just recently, you mean.
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She really died.
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Yeah, because.
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Oh, God.
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Not spleen, sorry.
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Appendix, I think.
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Appendix.
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Oh, yeah.
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Oh, but that's nothing.
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You become really life threatening.
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It wasn't just a.
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Yeah, it's a niggle,
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A niggling pain and then all of a sudden you.
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Yeah.
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Yeah, you're bleeding.
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It's so.
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It burned.
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Yeah.
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So she was like, she'd did put her in a coma and everything and didn't know if she was going to live.
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Well, she's just come home, she's lying.
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No, you know, I know you were doubtful about it all, but you talk to the AI, it understands everything.
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And it has lots of science.
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It understands all the emotions.
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It's better than a person and everywhere.
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Okay.
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If I'm honest.
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But anyway, yeah, I've just arrived at work.
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So.
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Okay, let's go
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Do what you need to do.
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Go then.
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Yeah.
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Well done.
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Yeah.
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Go do what you need to do.
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And then so if if it works with me, Sharon and Suzanne's okay, I'll come down for the day anyway regardless tomorrow.
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You'll have to be.
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don't even have to be around the house.
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We've got the party and then after that we can do something.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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To take Anna out and let Susanna be quiet.
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Go do your work three times and I'll catch up with you later.
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All right then talk to you in a bit.
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Okay bye.