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Hello love.
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Hi there.
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Sorry.
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Hello.
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Realised I forgot and said that you know that Ethan had arrived last night.
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All right.
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We were just very tired and we went straight to bed.
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No, that's
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5 to 12 he got.
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So it was all right.
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Yeah, I saw that you'd been on and gone up and gone to bed and things, so it was all right.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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And, uh, yeah, yeah, and not really any updates much.
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Um, he's getting, he's been moved to a different ward.
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So I'm going up there right now and I'll see him and then, I'll take Gloria home.
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Right,
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Okay, yeah.
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Yeah, Bijan's gone home.
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He set off at eight, so he threw at home at 12.
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Right, okay then. 12.
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Okay.
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Sure I'm 30, yeah.
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So I'll ask him to write to me when it gets back anyway.
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Okay then, that's that's good.
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Remember that you're not.
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Yeah.
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It's all right, don't worry.
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I was
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Quite, I thought everything was all right, but it was just last night.
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I thought, oh, just just to know.
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But it's absolutely fine.
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And I'm, I must apologize.
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I can send it now then.
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So, he's probably still away.
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I typed a message to send to to granddad this morning and didn't send it.
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So and I was thinking it's a bit late now to be doing it, but if Gloria still there, then it'll still be awake, presumably.
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Oh yeah, you just, you know, in hospital you're awake every ten minutes.
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All the time.
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Yeah.
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Yeah, yes, I'll just send it.
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Sleep for half an hour then you get woken up for all.
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You get,
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Yeah, for your obs and things, so yeah,
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I'll.
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I'll send that now.
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So, um, Bijan said he'd had lots of tests and that he sent to be The doctors were happy about the stents that he'd got in place that would would work okay.
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We don't know, we don't know so much.
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He's in good spirits and he looks much better.
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Heart attack.
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Well, they have an assessment.
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Well, that's it.
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Right, yes.
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Okay.
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You know, because he's under instructions not to walk, not to.
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He's only allowed to stay up so far.
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Right, okay.
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To walk, right.
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Okay.
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Three minutes of there, then five minutes of there, then ten.
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You can walk with the first one.
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Yes, yeah.
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So, we'll have, they'll have him up and walk before they let him out then presumably, if he's not allowed to do it yet.
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That's,
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That's, that's just on the distant horizon at the moment.
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That's not, there's no talking about that yet, because it may even.
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like this echo cardiogram, you know, this, you know, heart.
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Oh, right, okay.
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Bijan thought he was coming, he was going to get out on Friday, maybe.
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Oh, that was the way I'd understood what Friday.
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The very earliest,
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Right, okay, yeah.
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Yes, it's on a Tuesday now.
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13 years ago, you have one spent yesterday.
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Yeah.
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90% blocked, so ignite.
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Oh, wow.
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I wouldn't say out of the woods and it's not.
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Right, okay.
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Okay.
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Because they should have fought fencing there.
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Yeah.
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Reasonable, but the dogs are saying, well, there's a lot of risk in putting more than one stent in at a time.
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Time, yes.
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Yeah.
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So they only do it in an emergency, if it's life and death.
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Yes.
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So in the sense of
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Care because
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It's still
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Very unwell.
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Still?
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Anything could happen.
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Right, okay.
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Okay.
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or anything.
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He's currently going out of intensive care to the cardiac ward.
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Right, okay, I thought.
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Every hour, every 30 minutes to every 60 minutes, but he's still in there.
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Right, okay.
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I thought it was sort of out of the intensive high dependency bit, but he's not yet then, so okay.
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Well, he is now,
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He's been moved to Chestham and one or whatever, which I think is where I was.
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All right.
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Because I remember I was on a hard watch.
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You were, yes.
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Yes.
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You were.
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Pandemic, everything went wrong.
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And you picked me up from Chesterman, so I'm wondering.
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I did.
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Well, I don't think that door will be open now.
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No, I think that was exceptional circumstances, yeah.
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One.
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Right.
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She retired.
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She works part time now.
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So you never know she might be there.
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Oh, she might be there.
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Um.
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Either day or night, I don't know.
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I'm obviously I'm going to ask.
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Yes, yeah.
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yeah.
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Gusk if she's around, yeah.
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The information we have is they got him, you know, he was stable.
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Right.
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He's had the extra spend, but he's still got 90% occlusions in two places.
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I don't.
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Say Martin or not, that's something that will be followed up now because in the CCU they're about Bible and then it's about, you know, the next bit.
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Yeah.
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The surgeon of the ground that's okay.
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Right, okay.
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Okay.
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Yeah, I don't see him being in enormous danger, but his heart is not in good shape at all.
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So,
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But yeah, right, okay.
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In the best case, they're hoping to treat it medically, but that doesn't mean going home and having a new medical medicine regime.
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That means some powerful drug treatment, while he's in hospital.
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While he's in the hospital still.
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Right, okay.
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If he doesn't have, then surgery's now table.
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Right, okay then.
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And so when you said.
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That's about the risk and the blockage.
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But they ask about damage because the heart attack started about 9 a.m..
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The peak of the pain was quite clearly around 3 a.m., and it was 1 p.m. the next day when I called
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Ambulance.
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And his surgery was about two.
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So it was, and not his fault.
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Again, I don't blame him because he'd been discharged and told.
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He'd been told that it was all okay.
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Yeah, yeah.
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yeah.
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It's a gastrointestinal thing and followed up.
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And then he got pain.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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It was a serious heart attack.
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And so the next concern is long lasting damage to the heart.
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What's it done to his heart?
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Right, okay.
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And they said it depends how long it was going on for.
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And then.
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Right.
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This was a really long time.
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And you can't really tell he's not sitting up.
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but you might not make it up the stairs.
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You know, it might be too much.
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I don't, we don't know.
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Right, we don't know, right.
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Okay.
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Can I have an echocardiogram?
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Right.
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You know, Anna's had it.
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Suzanne's had it.
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that they look at the, this ultrasound of the heart.
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Yes, yeah, they did it to Nana, um, just before she died, because Auntie Julie was really angry, um, that they did it, but,
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Think that was an insurance policy on their part.
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I don't know.
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You might never know what happened.
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Yeah, that's it.
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It's not even invasive, it's just an ultrasound.
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It's nothing.
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Yeah, I know.
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It's just.
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She was mourning and it appeared to be crying out in pain, but I don't not think that she was really, but it just, it just sounded like that.
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Yeah.
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The the ultrasound is not painful so.
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No,
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No, I know.
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I know.
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I know.
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I know.
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If there was ever any chance transfer to anything, you had to have that.
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It's just an ultrasound.
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I just put some gel on him right.
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Yes, yes, that was there when they did it.
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Yes, I know what it is.
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He has to have that.
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Right, so yes.
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But they've been too busy to do it so far in how many days.
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Right.
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Okay.
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I thought from what Bijan had said that he'd had it, so that was all.
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Right.
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But he was supposed to have it today.
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And I want to determine in fact I'm moving out over the water.
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Right.
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CCU.
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But he has as far as I know, from the last semester with Gloria, they've been too busy.
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As soon as they've got a slot, he's going in.
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Right.
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Right.
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That may happen at 4:00 in the morning.
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Yes.
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Yeah.
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Which?
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Working 24.
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seven and they've got, you know?
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Yeah.
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Nobody has a heart attack between 4 and 5, it'll happen it.
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He'll have it then, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Good, it'll be helping the people actually who are having heart.
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That's it, yeah, that's the first the first priority has to be the ones that need them right at that second.
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He survived that bit, so then he's next in line for the treatment after those top ones.
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They're happy, they seem happy enough to take him out of CCU.
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Okay.
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So they're ongoing treatment, there will be more repairs needed.
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Or medically or uh.
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Or stent.
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Surgically.
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And yeah, hopefully it's been to the least case, but, uh, right.
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You know, and nothing's off the table and.
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So do they still,
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Do they still do like grafts, like, Nana and Grandad had the bypass grafts then.
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Or is that.
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They do.
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They do.
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They do still do that.
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Apparently, I had no idea that is cheaper to do than the uh, the stems and sent him.
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I didn't know it was a stems of robotic and all this.
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Right, yeah.
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So they actually, they do.
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And, Gloria's mother, I don't know.
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if you knew that she passed away.
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No.
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About four weeks ago.
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Oh goodness, right.
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Yeah, and so she was.
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It's a difficult
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Time for her.
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Right.
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and she died.
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I was near the chest of an entrance.
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And there's like a pickup drop office in there.
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It's like, Oh yeah, I remember this when I came out.
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I'm at the
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S, why you're picking up?
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Uh.
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Oh right, okay.
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Sorry, I'm just working out.
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I can just.
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No, that's all right.
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I can, I can talk to you.
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Open the door's open.
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Yeah, uh.
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Some of the died of a blood, um, infection, set to the spot.
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She was there with problems and she had, uh, she needed a heart bypass because her veins were messed up and, uh, process as well much.
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They did say she she was not so much a candidate for a stint as to have a bypass.
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what she did in the time to have the operation.
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Right.
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But as soon as you were bypassed, and there it's different where you pay something or other, it's not free.
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Right, yeah.
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And given that, they, she came to realise, I don't know, it's cheaper, and I asked the doctor about that.
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I said, Yeah, the cost of NHS of doing a bypass.
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Okay.
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Less
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The stent, but the stent's a lot less invasive than we.
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But it's a lot harder to recover from, yeah.
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Because the stent is all doing well.
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If you know that there's a problem and you can organize, plan surgery, he was going to go back to work the next day.
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Yeah.
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Well, this is not that he had a serious heart attack with unknown consequences at the so-call.
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Okay.
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All right.
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Well, I hope, um, let's hope it's all, once they've checked him further then, um, he can, he can get back to a bit of a normal life.
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Yeah.
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Yeah, I'm sure he will, but.
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Mhm.
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Okay.
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We'll see.
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Wow.
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Are you all right?
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Yeah, fine.
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Absolutely fine.
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It was nice with Bijou.
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I knew we had nice launch.
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We went to watch Anna swimming.
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She enjoyed something.
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So we were watching.
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Oh, you got.
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Right.
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That's good.
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I'm glad.
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I'm glad he got some time there and then and then did he go back to the hospital or that was it?
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Then he went off home.
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He just stayed at the galaxy's off at 8:00.
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So Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Expectable to be hot.
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Yeah.
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So he said he'll come as soon as he comes back from Spain, he'll come back and see see his dad and, um, yeah.
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be back up.
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Typical because Anna's like a feeling like he's there to see her and she wants to show him everything and she doesn't think that.
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She was shy of us and she was so excited.
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I said sorry, we'd have to go home.
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At half four because go and see her, take her swimming or whatever, you know.
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Yeah.
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I'm just ignore her.
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That's right.
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I know.
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Yeah, I'm not here to see you.
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I'm here to see.
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Yeah, just come for granddad.
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He was really good with it, really happy, so it's nice.
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That's good.
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That's good.
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So it'll just, yeah, it'll, um, lift him a bit before going home and, um, yeah.
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And, and it was just unfortunate the timing that he'd only just got his flights, booked and sorted, he said, when.
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Yeah, we got called.
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So it's, um, I know.
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Um, so, right.
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Okay, then.
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Let you go
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See.
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I'm going to go in and I'll Go in and yeah,
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Go and see them.
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Okay.
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All right, good care.
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See you later.
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All right, thanks for letting me know.
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Bye.