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Destination 07863183874 07863183874
Answered Unknown 2026-09-07 22:32:40
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Behnam
0:04 Hi.
Behnam
0:05 Hello.
Behnam
0:05 Hi.
Behnam
0:06 Sorry.
Behnam
0:07 Are you okay?
Unknown
0:08 No, no, that's all right.
Unknown
0:09 It's good.
Unknown
0:09 It's good to be able to talk to you.
Unknown
0:11 Yeah, I'm just.
Unknown
0:13 I'm in bed because I'm knackered first, I'm awake, if that makes sense.
Unknown
0:18 Yeah.
Unknown
0:18 Are you?
Behnam
0:18 Sorry enough.
Unknown
0:20 Yeah.
Unknown
0:20 Yeah,
Behnam
0:20 I had a funny day.
Behnam
0:22 Yeah, I just thought I should tell you about it.
Behnam
0:24 Right.
Behnam
0:25 Uh, nothing to worry about.
Behnam
0:27 Nothing to worry about at all, really, I think.
Unknown
0:28 Okay, no, tell me.
Behnam
0:30 It's granddaddy's had another heart attack.
Behnam
0:33 Oh, okay.
Behnam
0:34 But he's okay.
Behnam
0:35 He's not in any danger.
Behnam
0:36 he's in the hospital.
Behnam
0:37 Right, okay.
Behnam
0:38 And he's fine, but it was a bit worrying for a while.
Behnam
0:42 Um, but, uh.
Unknown
0:44 Sheffield this time.
Behnam
0:45 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Behnam
0:46 Northern General.
Behnam
0:47 Okay.
Behnam
0:47 Uh, he's fine.
Behnam
0:50 It went back a few days.
Behnam
0:52 Wow.
Behnam
0:52 But he, uh, he came to me last, uh, Tuesday.
Behnam
0:59 Yeah.
Behnam
0:59 And he said,
Behnam
1:01 Have you got time tomorrow evening to take me to the hospital?
Behnam
1:04 I've been having these chest pains and I can't get anywhere with the GP.
Behnam
1:09 And I said, Well, why tomorrow?
Behnam
1:11 Why not now?
Behnam
1:13 I mean, chess players you can just see what, especially in your history.
Behnam
1:17 Yeah.
Behnam
1:17 It's called 999, isn't it?
Behnam
1:18 You don't take any risks.
Behnam
1:20 I think that's a very big lesson.
Behnam
1:22 Yeah.
Behnam
1:23 So we went that evening.
Behnam
1:25 We negotiated it down to the evening.
Behnam
1:28 Right.
Behnam
1:29 Uh, last Tuesday.
Behnam
1:31 Right.
Behnam
1:32 Um, at 9 p.m..
Behnam
1:35 And there was 100 and 175 people in Ernie waiting to this thing.
Unknown
1:39 Oh my goodness.
Unknown
1:40 So he
Behnam
1:40 Got priority because he had chest pain.
Unknown
1:43 Chest pain and he had a heart attack.
Behnam
1:45 Yeah, but then the priority was just for three.
Behnam
1:48 triage.
Behnam
1:49 Right.
Behnam
1:49 Yes.
Behnam
1:50 Signs were on normal, so.
Behnam
1:52 Right.
Behnam
1:54 Right.
Behnam
1:54 And then when he did get, so he had ACG, cereal, EPGs, and buttons.
Behnam
2:00 And uh, troponin, words phrased, showing damage to the heart or excess.
Behnam
2:09 Protein is for showing something is not quite right with the heart.
Behnam
2:13 Right.
Behnam
2:14 Right.
Behnam
2:15 And he had about four ECGs and the second one of four was abnormal or not.
Behnam
2:22 Right.
Behnam
2:23 Conclusive of a heart attack.
Behnam
2:25 Right.
Behnam
2:25 So they actually kept him for two nights.
Behnam
2:28 Right, okay.
Behnam
2:29 Well, his pain was much worse after he'd eaten.
Behnam
2:32 So I was just stresses of, like, gold stones or something like that.
Unknown
2:35 Something like that as well.
Behnam
2:36 yeah.
Behnam
2:37 Yeah, so I've been there with him for ages and then at the end of discharged him, but I wasn't there when he was actually discharged.
Behnam
2:44 He didn't want to tell me, explain it all properly.
Behnam
2:47 Right.
Behnam
2:47 I don't think he followed it.
Behnam
2:48 Gloria is within one time.
Behnam
2:50 I don't think.
Behnam
2:51 I mean, she understood, but I didn't get it clearly from them, like, Oh, there's nothing wrong with your heart.
Behnam
2:57 Right.
Behnam
2:57 Go home, ring your GP.
Behnam
2:58 And, um,
Unknown
3:00 Yeah.
Unknown
3:01 Uh,
Behnam
3:02 Arranged to have a look at your stomach because it's like after you're eating.
Behnam
3:06 Right.
Behnam
3:07 And also, but the thing is it did also increases heart medicine dosage.
Behnam
3:13 from 5 to 6 milligrams on something.
Behnam
3:16 And I've not seen the discharge lettering until today.
Behnam
3:19 It did sound, uh, he's got like angina.
Behnam
3:22 So he was having angina.
Unknown
3:24 Right.
Unknown
3:24 Pam.
Unknown
3:25 Okay, yes.
Behnam
3:26 But they weren't doing anything with that.
Behnam
3:27 They were just, they'd increased his medicine.
Behnam
3:29 And they were more worried about having him see the GP about his stomach.
Unknown
3:34 Stomach, right, okay.
Unknown
3:36 So he's got an under the tongue thing.
Behnam
3:41 Well, he has one all the time.
Behnam
3:42 He's always had one.
Behnam
3:43 He never had to use it ever.
Unknown
3:45 Right, okay.
Unknown
3:46 Yeah.
Behnam
3:47 And when you, got home, I took him home on Friday, I think.
Behnam
3:53 Right.
Behnam
3:53 Friday.
Behnam
3:54 And he was, someone had broken his car window, one of the old, who lived there.
Behnam
4:00 Must have smashed Ed Brock in his car wings, no.
Behnam
4:03 Cracked it, hit him three times with a hammer.
Behnam
4:06 But they've been upset about where he parked it.
Behnam
4:09 Um, you know what they're like there.
Behnam
4:12 Yeah, horrible.
Behnam
4:14 Probably, yeah.
Behnam
4:16 It's kind of the three strikes on the windscreen.
Behnam
4:19 So I had to get that sorted out with the insurance and everything.
Behnam
4:22 And the man was meant to be coming today.
Behnam
4:25 between 11 and 3 to replace it.
Behnam
4:28 Yeah.
Behnam
4:29 And he phoned me 11 to ask me where is the guy?
Behnam
4:31 I didn't know anything about it because it's all on my, you know my phone.
Behnam
4:34 Yeah.
Behnam
4:35 I said, you don't sell the well.
Behnam
4:36 It's just my chest it's really hurting again.
Behnam
4:38 I said, well, we have to do something about that.
Behnam
4:41 And I was at home, so I went, I was back at home at lunchtime.
Behnam
4:45 So I went over to him and I saw he was in so much pain.
Behnam
4:48 He, was just sitting on the bed.
Behnam
4:50 I called 999.
Behnam
4:54 And they told me on the phone to spray him under the tongue with this spray.
Behnam
4:57 Yes.
Behnam
4:59 Give him some aspirin.
Behnam
5:00 And then, uh, I'm going to stuck about half an hour and they came and hooked him up and all, and I could tell straight away, they're looking at each other and I said, What is it?
Behnam
5:12 Okay, everyone, we need to panic.
Behnam
5:13 Okay, relax.
Behnam
5:14 You must be calm.
Behnam
5:16 You must be calm, but the signing signs on the ECG suggest you're having a heart attack.
Behnam
5:21 Am I?
Behnam
5:22 Oh, gosh.
Behnam
5:23 Yeah.
Behnam
5:24 And then it was all.
Behnam
5:24 panicked and they were just straight away on it.
Behnam
5:27 Like, no, he wasn't, he was laughing, but they're like, Oh, okay.
Behnam
5:30 He, no, he starts about 13 years ago in Castle Hill Hospital in Hall, they were sort of done three stents, but they only did two because they were in a rush.
Behnam
5:39 And I knew this would happen, you know.
Behnam
5:42 And it's even written in his discharge letter from the other day about his history.
Behnam
5:47 They had two stents put in in 2023, but he felt they, sorry, 2017.
Behnam
5:54 But he felt they should have had three, but the doctor was in a rush and they put it in quotation marks, like on the notes, like,
Behnam
6:00 Anyway, they were on it, lie down, put lines in him, shaved his chest to put pads on in case they had to shock him.
Behnam
6:09 Um, yeah.
Behnam
6:10 Everything.
Behnam
6:11 Um, and then this lady kept knocking on the door.
Behnam
6:15 Yeah, because they wouldn't have called an image because he said don't.
Behnam
6:18 No.
Behnam
6:19 I don't blame him because they were, they've been told.
Behnam
6:21 He was under the impression.
Behnam
6:23 He seemed to have been told.
Behnam
6:25 not in any danger with his heart and follow it up in a few weeks or months.
Behnam
6:29 Yeah.
Behnam
6:30 Um, and then this woman came knocking on the door.
Behnam
6:33 Uh, is it gonna, are you gonna belong with the ambulance outside?
Behnam
6:36 because they'll just stop outside the flat.
Behnam
6:38 They don't park.
Behnam
6:40 Nearly somewhere.
Behnam
6:41 And I said, I don't know.
Behnam
6:42 I don't know.
Behnam
6:43 I'm sorry.
Behnam
6:43 We're in the middle of something here and I just shut the door.
Behnam
6:46 And then she knocked a few minutes.
Behnam
6:48 And I take again, I said, Is it really, is it like an emergency?
Behnam
6:51 And I said, The clue's written on the side of the ambulance, emergency ambulance.
Behnam
6:57 And I just foot the door again.
Behnam
6:59 And then
Behnam
7:00 They were on the phone with the hospital and they were injecting him with stuff and all that.
Behnam
7:08 And then the door, someone knocked on the door again and the paramedic went to the door and he said, Listen, piss off.
Behnam
7:16 I slammed the door in the face.
Behnam
7:25 Yeah.
Behnam
7:28 Because if I'd not been there and called I mean, I still wouldn't have done it until it could have been.
Behnam
7:33 Because he really thought it's to do with his eating and he was after was eager.
Behnam
7:37 His stomach gets hot and it was really painful, but.
Unknown
7:40 Right, okay, yeah.
Behnam
7:41 Uh, so they, uh.
Unknown
7:44 His body's a mess as well, isn't it?
Unknown
7:45 It's like.
Behnam
7:46 No, he's a lot healthier than he's.
Behnam
7:48 they've got very good routine with Gloria, these boiled vegetables and noodles and fish and stuff and it's by routine and it's all good.
Behnam
7:58 Okay.
Behnam
7:59 It's really good.
Behnam
8:00 Stuff.
Behnam
8:02 Then they thrown through to the hospital and the paramedic said, in a way it's lucky that they can see the clear pattern of a heart attack of an MI on the ECG printer because sometimes you don't know, it could be a computer so you need to go to A and E and then you go to school, but there was an extremely clear thing.
Behnam
8:22 So they sent a picture of it to the cardiology, Right.
Unknown
8:27 Because you get to bypass.
Behnam
8:28 Yeah, exactly.
Behnam
8:29 And they arranged it.
Behnam
8:31 So they put him in the back and spend another five minutes in the back of the ambulance to give him some more things.
Behnam
8:36 because it was really hurting that much.
Behnam
8:38 Yeah.
Behnam
8:38 And then she said just, I said, Where do I go when we get there?
Behnam
8:41 I said, follow me and you'll see there's an ambulance there and you can just stop in there for ten minutes behind behind us.
Behnam
8:47 While you're going to see where he's going and everything.
Behnam
8:50 And so I set off and then we got to the main road and put the lights and sirens on them.
Behnam
8:55 It absolutely flew.
Behnam
8:57 Hard to.
Behnam
8:57 And they had no chance.
Unknown
8:58 Back through Sheffield, yeah.
Unknown
8:59 No, no.
Behnam
9:00 When I got there, he'd already gone into the castle and then the nurse and Gloria explained it, so they were waiting.
Behnam
9:06 When he got there, the doctors came out to the ambulance, said they did on the ECG with their equipment, they gave him some more injections, and then they wheeled him straight to the cath lab within about a minute.
Behnam
9:19 And I think they got to the hospital in about eight minutes, so from door to to surgery.
Behnam
9:26 He was less than 50 minutes of leaving his flat.
Behnam
9:29 He was in theater.
Unknown
9:31 Right, okay.
Behnam
9:32 Which was how urgently they were treating it.
Unknown
9:35 Right, so what we have done then.
Behnam
9:37 So they told us in an hour to an hour and a half, we'll come and talk to you and let you know how it's going.
Unknown
9:44 Right.
Behnam
9:45 Yeah.
Behnam
9:46 But then after three hours, there was still nothing.
Behnam
9:49 And I still don't know why, but we were panicking.
Behnam
9:52 I'm panicking.
Behnam
9:53 And they were like, oh, don't worry, I'm sure you'll be fine.
Behnam
9:55 Sometimes the news is good news.
Behnam
9:56 Maybe they're fixing it all, but nothing for three and a bit hours.
Unknown
10:00 That's, I know.
Unknown
10:01 But but then the society's been right.
Unknown
10:03 You were down for surgery.
Unknown
10:04 It was like that.
Unknown
10:05 You were hours.
Unknown
10:06 Yeah.
Behnam
10:06 And you don't know anything.
Behnam
10:07 You can't find out. know what's happening.
Unknown
10:09 I know.
Behnam
10:10 Yeah, because mine went wrong and it was more complex.
Behnam
10:12 And I thought well, the worst case at least is they have to open them up, they'll do it.
Behnam
10:16 They're.
Behnam
10:17 Yes.
Behnam
10:17 Yeah.
Behnam
10:18 But they didn't.
Behnam
10:18 So then they're like, because it's, you know, like, sadly when we were, went to seeing that, and she was in cardiac intensive care.
Behnam
10:27 Yeah.
Behnam
10:27 For whatever is the shame.
Behnam
10:28 It was like he was going to be brought into that.
Behnam
10:30 We were in the waiting area with all these people crying and all panicking and stressed.
Behnam
10:35 He said, that's stuff.
Unknown
10:37 Yeah.
Behnam
10:37 And then the nurse, I asked twice.
Behnam
10:40 Well, there's no news yet.
Behnam
10:42 There's no news yet.
Behnam
10:42 They're just busy working on him.
Behnam
10:44 And then she said, No, he's in, um, things come soon now.
Behnam
10:48 You can come in.
Behnam
10:48 and she doesn't. recovery.
Behnam
10:50 And he sat at night.
Behnam
10:50 No, he was out of recovery.
Behnam
10:52 He just didn't report anything.
Behnam
10:54 He was in the cardiac intensive care.
Behnam
10:56 And he was sat up and laughing and asking for phone and he was absolutely fine.
Behnam
11:00 And, you know, before he went, he looked very pale and sweaty and clamming, and, you know, he was having a heart attack and not a small one.
Behnam
11:08 Yes.
Behnam
11:09 Um, yeah.
Behnam
11:10 And then he, oh, instantly looked better.
Behnam
11:12 And what happened?
Behnam
11:13 And, he didn't.
Behnam
11:14 Yeah.
Behnam
11:14 He kept saying they did this, they did that, but he didn't know because he'd been sedated and that.
Behnam
11:19 Um, but he was fine.
Behnam
11:19 He was up to, never looked more well for months.
Unknown
11:22 I remember sitting in the bed like that.
Unknown
11:25 Yes.
Unknown
11:26 Um, when.
Behnam
11:27 Because suddenly his heart wasn't.
Unknown
11:29 Yeah, yeah.
Unknown
11:30 He was, he was like gray and oh, it was scary when he had his because, like he was only 48 and I remember that he was and then the next the next day we saw him and he sat up, he you know, he had his shirt off, he sat up there and oh, yeah, this is, this is gray.
Unknown
11:50 I'm fine.
Unknown
11:52 Yeah.
Unknown
11:52 Yeah.
Behnam
11:54 Because when the pyramidis came, it was looking gray and pale.
Behnam
11:57 And like, is this your usual skin color?
Behnam
11:59 Because you look a bit like,
Behnam
12:00 Pale.
Behnam
12:01 Fantastic considering it's just been summer.
Behnam
12:04 Have you been hiding your from the sun or the summer?
Behnam
12:07 No?
Behnam
12:08 Yeah.
Behnam
12:08 I like a good tank color.
Unknown
12:10 So yeah, yeah.
Unknown
12:12 Yeah.
Unknown
12:13 Yeah.
Unknown
12:13 You do like a gray color.
Unknown
12:15 Um.
Behnam
12:15 Yeah, it was.
Behnam
12:16 Um.
Behnam
12:18 And so, yeah, they put one that done one stint.
Behnam
12:21 And as far as I understand.
Behnam
12:23 He had one stint.
Behnam
12:24 stance.
Behnam
12:25 Yeah, but there was a complete blockage, you see?
Behnam
12:29 There was a complete blockage.
Behnam
12:30 That's what he keeps saying, right?
Behnam
12:31 I don't like it.
Behnam
12:32 Is that my answer?
Behnam
12:33 It's a different artery now.
Behnam
12:35 Yeah.
Behnam
12:35 But, Complete blockage.
Behnam
12:39 And that's why it was.
Behnam
12:39 Right.
Behnam
12:40 They said like the doctor came and asked a lot of the questions and talked to them.
Behnam
12:45 One was completely blocked and two were partially.
Behnam
12:48 occluded and they haven't passed them because it's risky to put too many stents in one go.
Behnam
12:54 It's complicated.
Unknown
12:55 Right, okay.
Behnam
12:57 If it's needed, it can still be done, and when it's needed.
Behnam
12:59 So it's better
Behnam
13:00 To try and treat them medically.
Behnam
13:02 And that's exactly the same conversation we had 13 years ago.
Behnam
13:05 I remember we put those tents in and there's another occlusion and we're trying to treat them medically, really, without you know, the invasiveness of going back to him, putting another stent.
Behnam
13:15 Yeah,
Unknown
13:16 Yes, yeah, yeah.
Behnam
13:18 Uh,
Unknown
13:19 Okay.
Behnam
13:20 So, but he's, you know, you're not happy with it straight away.
Behnam
13:23 Then what do they mean?
Behnam
13:24 They'll deal with.
Behnam
13:25 it as and when it happens.
Behnam
13:26 Well, I have to have another heart attack.
Behnam
13:27 For the other one, I need another stent, I need another stent.
Behnam
13:32 But she's explained it.
Behnam
13:33 It's invented.
Behnam
13:34 It's spent.
Behnam
13:35 You still in pain.
Unknown
13:37 How can how can they treat it?
Unknown
13:40 Medically then just with with Tinder blood.
Behnam
13:42 So he might spend a few days on extremely thin blood and not really moving.
Unknown
13:47 Right, okay.
Unknown
13:48 Okay.
Unknown
13:49 For a little time to get me.
Unknown
13:51 Yeah.
Behnam
13:51 He's got to stay in the cardiac intensive care for 24 hours.
Unknown
13:55 Right, right.
Unknown
13:56 Okay.
Behnam
13:56 As far as I know, he's fighting there.
Behnam
13:58 But he was really tired and
Behnam
14:00 Him.
Behnam
14:01 He not slept because he didn't so much pain on me.
Behnam
14:03 Well, no,
Unknown
14:03 He wouldn't have been able to.
Behnam
14:05 I told him to sleep and I left him to it.
Behnam
14:07 Yeah.
Behnam
14:10 So he's fine, but for a while, when they said that in the house and the way they reacted in the flutter, how serious he was.
Behnam
14:16 How serious.
Behnam
14:17 And the way they drove, and the fact it didn't even wait two minutes before taking him into theatre.
Behnam
14:23 It's all good, where it was that.
Behnam
14:24 and then nothing for three hours.
Behnam
14:27 We were just getting really worried.
Unknown
14:29 You would be.
Behnam
14:30 But it's all right.
Behnam
14:31 It's you're yourself in a good mood now, so it's fine.
Behnam
14:35 He's had this Complete blockage completely.
Behnam
14:38 There doesn't seem to be a whole thing.
Behnam
14:40 They're like serious damage.
Behnam
14:43 Right.
Unknown
14:44 And hopefully they'll have, okay, it has to come through the GP, unfortunately.
Unknown
14:48 but he should have regular checkups now, because I know like Nana and granddad used to have six monthly checkups of all sorts.
Behnam
14:56 He had been having to do with the house.
Behnam
14:58 He had been.
Behnam
14:58 He had been had a.
Behnam
14:59 But you know,
Behnam
15:00 Ask your question, then.
Behnam
15:02 Yes.
Behnam
15:02 You're a medicine, and you're not getting tired out of breath when you walk uphills and stuff.
Behnam
15:06 You're not like the scam, it'll be heart.
Behnam
15:09 It's really.
Behnam
15:11 Yeah. 12 daughters and you couldn't really know.
Behnam
15:15 Yeah.
Behnam
15:15 I mean, that this is going to happen.
Behnam
15:16 But something.
Behnam
15:17 Yeah.
Behnam
15:18 The questions to be answered about, as fact, they've spent two nights in hospital.
Behnam
15:22 I mean, discharged.
Behnam
15:23 Discharged.
Unknown
15:24 And then had a heart attack.
Behnam
15:26 Yeah. 48 hours after he left.
Unknown
15:29 Yeah.
Unknown
15:31 Yeah.
Unknown
15:32 And while while he's not happy that he thinks he should have had more stents than that, Obviously the work that they did do 13 years ago has saved him this time.
Unknown
15:42 Oh yeah.
Unknown
15:43 Because that's what the sort of said with with Nana when she had her first, her first one.
Unknown
15:48 and she was and they wouldn't let her out until they've done the bypasses.
Unknown
15:52 She was in yeah about five weeks.
Behnam
15:54 I remember.
Unknown
15:56 But they said that if she hadn't changed the diet when granddad
Unknown
16:00 Had his.
Unknown
16:01 Yeah.
Unknown
16:01 So like 15 years earlier, she wouldn't have survived that heart attack.
Unknown
16:06 And and then because she'd had that one, the next one, she survived as well because.
Unknown
16:11 Exactly.
Unknown
16:12 It's yeah.
Behnam
16:13 And the technology had moved on a lot like it would have.
Behnam
16:16 Yeah.
Behnam
16:16 There weren't stents in 2001.
Behnam
16:19 Otherwise you might well have just had stents for the same thing.
Unknown
16:21 Maybe just stents instead of.
Unknown
16:23 So that's what I was going to.
Unknown
16:24 ask.
Unknown
16:26 When they have the bypass, then, um, the cracky ribs will have to go in that way to do it.
Unknown
16:31 How do they do the stents?
Unknown
16:32 Is that?
Behnam
16:32 They drill a hole.
Behnam
16:33 They grind on his teeth.
Behnam
16:35 Usually the wrist.
Behnam
16:36 No.
Behnam
16:37 Right.
Behnam
16:37 It's amazing.
Behnam
16:39 The metaphoric, like the wrist.
Behnam
16:40 Even the groin or the wrist, but they join into an artery.
Behnam
16:44 They're quite an artery.
Behnam
16:45 And then the faded tube with a robe on the end.
Behnam
16:49 Right.
Behnam
16:49 The robot places, nano robot places a stent in the right occluded part of the artery of the vessel.
Unknown
16:57 Wow.
Behnam
16:58 And then takes
Behnam
17:00 Field it.
Behnam
17:01 It's unbelievable.
Unknown
17:03 That is, it's fantastic.
Behnam
17:05 But it's not without risk completely.
Unknown
17:07 But it's still, well, exactly, going into a blocked archery and you're messing about with it.
Behnam
17:12 And cutting the right artery down.
Behnam
17:14 And cutting.
Behnam
17:15 Oh, like, because you have to wear a, I remember it's the same as this other one.
Behnam
17:19 You have to wear like, it's got like a bandage around, a clear plastic.
Behnam
17:22 Compression.
Behnam
17:23 Compression, because they've got an artery.
Behnam
17:25 you know, if that slips anything.
Behnam
17:26 Yeah, if that slips.
Behnam
17:27 It's a second.
Behnam
17:29 It's not like a test.
Unknown
17:31 No, no, it's a big, a big thing.
Behnam
17:33 A big hole and a big, big vessel.
Behnam
17:36 songs.
Behnam
17:37 Yeah.
Behnam
17:37 But yeah, so he's okay.
Behnam
17:38 Uh, just didn't look really worrying for a while.
Behnam
17:41 I phoned BJ and I talked to him about it and he decided to, but we didn't know.
Behnam
17:45 Right.
Behnam
17:45 At the time, like how serious it was, but he was, It's getting worse by the hour when hours we're going by without news.
Behnam
17:52 And so he's going to be with us about midnight and we're going to be here in the morning.
Unknown
17:57 Okay, then, good.
Unknown
18:00 Yeah, yeah.
Unknown
18:00 That's good.
Unknown
18:01 So, um, right, just take care and, um, send in hugs to you all.
Unknown
18:07 Um, right, right.
Unknown
18:12 Yeah.
Unknown
18:12 And that is okay.
Unknown
18:14 And and I'm glad you're okay.
Unknown
18:16 Um I'd had really weird dreams last night and remembered them and it was oh it was.
Behnam
18:24 You had weird dreams.
Behnam
18:24 last night that he was having a heart attack since 90.
Unknown
18:26 No, no, that he was having a heart attack.
Unknown
18:28 It was stupid things.
Unknown
18:29 It was when he said to talk, I was like, I just dreamt that, um, you just sort of turned up here and said, Oh, it's all gone.
Unknown
18:38 TLC's closed.
Unknown
18:39 And I was.
Behnam
18:40 No, no, that's actually going well.
Behnam
18:42 No, that sounds.
Behnam
18:43 So that's
Unknown
18:43 That's maybe like the connection of TLC
Behnam
18:47 And.
Behnam
18:47 No, yeah, maybe.
Behnam
18:48 but there was something.
Behnam
18:49 It wasn't nothing.
Behnam
18:50 You know, you were literally having a heart attack.
Behnam
18:54 Yeah.
Behnam
18:54 When you were having no dreams.
Behnam
18:56 And you couldn't sleep for it, so.
Behnam
18:59 Oh, yeah.
Unknown
19:01 We just met.
Behnam
19:02 We don't know too much.
Behnam
19:03 We'll find out more.
Unknown
19:04 Thank you.
Behnam
19:06 Thank you for being there.
Unknown
19:08 I know that you have, you know, issues at times, but he's still your dad.
Behnam
19:14 You know, when I took him to the hospital on Wednesday night or Tuesday, when Tuesday night, when I can't remember.
Behnam
19:22 And we were waiting for hours and hours and I just left him left him to it in the end.
Behnam
19:27 Yeah.
Behnam
19:28 He and I was outside and laughing and watching the crazy trends pass and I was having a nervous breakdown.
Behnam
19:35 I've got mental health.
Behnam
19:36 I've got mental health.
Behnam
19:38 I'm shouting and kicking the barriers and there was a guy brought in handcuffs by the police and they also had to just wait and they were waiting outside and then the transperson with the mental health was shouting about how long they had to wait and swearing.
Behnam
19:52 And then one lady said, He stopped swearing.
Behnam
19:54 And then the trans person started shouting at the person who said, Please stop swearing.
Behnam
20:00 I think so, I'm one of shouting.
Behnam
20:01 Perfect.
Behnam
20:02 Yeah.
Behnam
20:02 And then the policeman told them to, I was with the prisoner told them to shut up.
Behnam
20:06 And then this trans he or she, I don't know.
Behnam
20:08 Oh, you see, they're desperate to arrest me.
Behnam
20:10 And showing the police on, like pushing him to fight them.
Behnam
20:13 He just really wanted, he wanted to be arrested or admitted to hospital or anything.
Unknown
20:18 Or admitted.
Behnam
20:19 And they kept saying, At least I'll get a lift home afterwards.
Behnam
20:23 Are they desperate to arrest me, look, they put any words in my mouth and all that.
Behnam
20:27 But he was just completely having to go at the policeman and the policeman was just.
Behnam
20:30 Yeah.
Behnam
20:31 Being reasonable and ignoring it.
Behnam
20:33 They're pregnant.
Unknown
20:33 They're calm and.
Unknown
20:35 Yeah.
Unknown
20:35 Yeah.
Unknown
20:35 They'd probably
Behnam
20:36 Get out.
Behnam
20:36 whole time.
Unknown
20:37 Yeah, seriously.
Unknown
20:38 Yes.
Behnam
20:38 But we, me and Gwendolyn were just outside watching it on and laughing and laughing and look at this one, put that one in on.
Behnam
20:44 He was, he'd never say he was having a heart attack burning.
Behnam
20:46 He looked absolutely fine.
Behnam
20:48 But in his work, he'd been having such severe pain in the morning.
Behnam
20:52 Yeah.
Behnam
20:52 It was to, you know, he needed to go to early.
Behnam
20:55 To go.
Behnam
20:56 Obviously, he should have been in the morning, but then, then the man had seen something at the time.
Behnam
21:00 But yes, when
Behnam
21:02 It was actually happening,
Behnam
21:03 Yeah.
Behnam
21:04 This is what happened.
Behnam
21:04 And so here we are.
Behnam
21:06 Yeah.
Unknown
21:08 Oh, good.
Unknown
21:09 So do you get on all right with Gloria then, when.
Behnam
21:12 You've had, you know,
Unknown
21:14 Like the shoes.
Behnam
21:14 No, I just thought it was.
Behnam
21:16 She was a bit weird about it.
Behnam
21:17 She's nice and very, she's very, very caring for them.
Behnam
21:20 She looked after.
Behnam
21:21 Good to her.
Behnam
21:22 But anyway, I took her towards her as well.
Behnam
21:24 other all right together.
Behnam
21:25 And she's, you know, like when we were at the hospital the other night and she comes outside with a bag and she gets out a mug and she gets out a flask and she gets out tea bags and makes him a cup of tea in it.
Behnam
21:36 She's making him have a healthy diet.
Behnam
21:38 She's, you know, I got similar interests with cooking.
Behnam
21:41 She's telling me while I was sitting there waiting.
Behnam
21:44 He was cooking, if he was cooking, I saw a recipe on the BBC wanted me wanting to have a go out here and stuff like that.
Behnam
21:50 He's like a retired old man and that's very stuff like that.
Behnam
21:55 It's fine and they'll just do that together.
Behnam
21:58 But yeah, she makes him go to bed
Behnam
22:00 She says it's a bit like looking after a child, but you know, he's all right.
Behnam
22:05 You have to go to bed now, you have to eat all your food, you have to take, you have to do that.
Behnam
22:10 She organizes this medicine, you know, the doctor asked about medicine and she gets out the bag and lays them all out and she's sorted them into boxes Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday morning.
Behnam
22:20 Yeah.
Behnam
22:21 He has absolutely lost.
Unknown
22:22 Yeah, I've got one of those, but it's only.
Unknown
22:24 got vitamins in it, but yeah.
Behnam
22:26 That's okay.
Behnam
22:28 Um, yeah.
Behnam
22:29 Take anything.
Unknown
22:30 Okay, that's, that's good that he's, um, yeah.
Unknown
22:33 He's got, um, that he's got her to look after him.
Unknown
22:36 that's that's good.
Behnam
22:38 Yeah, but it's a ton of water for not reacting to that pain last night.
Behnam
22:43 Yes.
Behnam
22:44 And I think she said, I know, but he didn't want to.
Behnam
22:47 He didn't want to.
Behnam
22:48 He says, no, he says no, it's just because of food.
Behnam
22:50 It's just because of which is in fairness what he'd been told by the hospital.
Unknown
22:54 Which is, yeah.
Behnam
22:55 It wasn't like someone to ignore that either, you know, it's just.
Behnam
22:59 Yes.
Behnam
23:00 A big lesson in all this.
Behnam
23:01 You don't ever, ever take it for granted.
Behnam
23:05 I'll take it, try to guess what it is.
Behnam
23:08 There's no reason.
Unknown
23:09 I've never had, I've never had pain like that, so.
Behnam
23:12 No, but the slightest thing, this 999, that's it.
Behnam
23:15 Yeah.
Behnam
23:16 It took them quite a while to get to us because they were that busy as well.
Unknown
23:20 Right, yeah.
Behnam
23:21 That's about 20 minutes.
Behnam
23:23 So, but, you know, and I was kept thinking, if I'd known that yesterday, I'd have called 999.
Behnam
23:29 Even when he told me this morning, I just got home because I was going to do some work at home, so then it was out.
Behnam
23:35 And I was going to make a sandwich.
Behnam
23:36 vacant sunrise and all that.
Behnam
23:37 Sunrise.
Behnam
23:38 And then he told me about it and I thought, okay, I'm gonna go there and call an ambulance and they're gonna come do an ECG.
Behnam
23:44 They'll say, You're fired.
Behnam
23:45 They're big fire, right?
Behnam
23:46 Well, at least we'll feel reassured.
Behnam
23:48 but then I'm not getting my lunch too late.
Behnam
23:50 So I thought, okay, I'll just make this and eat it quickly and then go.
Behnam
23:53 And I was like 20 minutes.
Behnam
23:55 But then I kept thinking to myself, what could that 20 minutes have cost if I'd just gone
Behnam
24:00 Called before I even went to him.
Unknown
24:02 Yeah, but you needed to eat as well.
Unknown
24:05 Um, yeah, thank God he's all right.
Unknown
24:09 Yeah,
Behnam
24:10 500.
Unknown
24:11 If he, if he hadn't been, I would have, I wouldn't have wanted you to have felt any, uh, guilt Guilt at not going straight.
Behnam
24:20 No, the guilt lies on the hospital or whatever happened in the day.
Unknown
24:24 Yes, all the other things that.
Behnam
24:26 You should have had like an angiogram or something, you know.
Behnam
24:29 Yeah, we should have had.
Behnam
24:31 We should have looked at the heart better.
Behnam
24:32 In a bit more detail when he presented the chest pain.
Behnam
24:36 And, it wasn't just to say so, because the blood that shot something wasn't right, and he had one abnormal ECG.
Behnam
24:43 Just the fact they had two more okay after that's not enough.
Unknown
24:46 And when when you say it's like when you've eaten.
Unknown
24:49 So they often say that it feels like indigestion when when you have.
Unknown
24:53 Yeah,
Behnam
24:54 There's not much difference.
Behnam
24:55 That's the thing.
Behnam
24:56 And I was reassuring him earlier before the ambulance was, you know, I'm sure it is.
Behnam
25:00 And I explained.
Behnam
25:01 I know what you just said.
Behnam
25:03 You know, 90% of the people that don't have any of the chest pain have got any gesture.
Behnam
25:07 Of course.
Behnam
25:08 But he had Gavis gone and he'd had a few.
Behnam
25:11 It didn't make any difference.
Behnam
25:15 And he was climbing and he was like, going right.
Behnam
25:18 So it was down his arms, not his neck.
Behnam
25:20 I said, it goes up my neck.
Behnam
25:22 And he said, it's not my neck.
Behnam
25:23 It's like my back and my arms.
Behnam
25:26 And he'd been feeling nauseous.
Behnam
25:27 That was the first thing the paramedics had said he felt nauseous.
Behnam
25:31 He'd been biting a lot and he thought he could make himself sick and make it better, but he couldn't manage to.
Behnam
25:36 Yeah.
Behnam
25:37 Oh, yeah.
Unknown
25:41 Yes.
Unknown
25:42 Okay.
Unknown
25:42 Anyway, um.
Unknown
25:44 So I'm going to stay up
Behnam
25:44 For Pegan to get here about between 12 and 1:00.
Unknown
25:47 Yes.
Unknown
25:48 Right, oh goodness.
Behnam
25:50 I don't know whether we go to the hospital or.
Behnam
25:53 Well, yeah, the granddad didn't come out at 6:00, so I spoke to Bishop.
Behnam
25:57 Right,
Unknown
25:58 Right, okay, yeah.
Behnam
25:59 Because we didn't
Behnam
26:00 I just find him and he had a gap at about four.
Behnam
26:03 Yes.
Behnam
26:04 And I don't think we've got tonight.
Behnam
26:06 I don't think he's going to want to.
Behnam
26:09 By 9:00 he'll be awake.
Behnam
26:10 Yeah.
Unknown
26:12 I don't know, yeah, I don't know how, how tired you'll be and, I think you'll just see,
Behnam
26:17 Um.
Behnam
26:17 Seaways.
Unknown
26:18 Yeah.
Unknown
26:19 And, and I don't know, can you go at any time when, when you're in, Yeah.
Unknown
26:26 Even the cardiac eye dependency is a.
Behnam
26:28 Cardiac intensive care, isn't it?
Unknown
26:30 Intensive care.
Behnam
26:31 I mean, it's intensive care and there's a dedicated nurse.
Behnam
26:34 But usually sitting up and joking and laughing.
Behnam
26:37 when I left.
Behnam
26:37 Yes.
Behnam
26:38 Very sleeping about being daft and joking and all that.
Behnam
26:42 You know, they come and ask like, excuse her puppy in the phone, like, how much do you smoke?
Behnam
26:46 He says, I gave up smoking.
Behnam
26:48 I went, uh, on the way here, you know, things like, how much do you drink?
Behnam
26:54 And he's like, well, I did.
Behnam
26:55 And I'm like, okay, do you like this?
Behnam
26:56 Do you like that?
Behnam
26:58 And on her screen, she's got pictures like,
Behnam
27:01 Uh, shandy grass and a wine glass and a beer glass, uh, pine glass or something.
Behnam
27:05 You go to like click on each one home in the unit.
Behnam
27:08 Yeah.
Behnam
27:09 And me and him I just pinned up.
Behnam
27:10 I just had the menu.
Behnam
27:12 I'll have one over those.
Behnam
27:13 , one out of the house, and you know, he's been like that.
Behnam
27:16 And then they're saying, look, just lie down and don't move too much, and it's like.
Behnam
27:20 Yeah.
Behnam
27:20 Just rest in your house.
Behnam
27:21 So it's it's intensive care, technically, but it's nothing like when we saw none.
Behnam
27:26 It's the same unit and there are people behind some of the curtains, obviously in a really, really, really bad way and comatose or whatever.
Behnam
27:34 But he's like, like, you know, not that bad.
Behnam
27:40 He's still, never know.
Behnam
27:41 He's had hearts, I think he's had an heart attack.
Behnam
27:44 Yeah.
Unknown
27:45 He's got to be in there.
Unknown
27:46 He's got to be looked after.
Unknown
27:48 Um,
Behnam
27:49 Yeah, she said he'll stay in that unit for 24 hours and then the review and decide where he goes, but not to expect to go for a few days at least.
Unknown
27:56 Right, yeah.
Behnam
27:57 No, no.
Behnam
27:58 He would like to have more surgery.
Behnam
28:01 Um, definitely.
Behnam
28:02 Yeah.
Behnam
28:03 So I said an option.
Behnam
28:04 But whether they will give him it or not if the.
Behnam
28:06 Probably.
Behnam
28:07 No, that's what she said.
Behnam
28:08 And probably will because of these stuff.
Behnam
28:10 If you don't like, you shouldn't do too many stints.
Behnam
28:13 in one go because it's risky.
Behnam
28:15 Right.
Behnam
28:16 I don't quite know why.
Behnam
28:16 So there's no harm in having as many as you want.
Behnam
28:19 It can be all metal tools inside instead of the metro.
Behnam
28:22 But it just isn't good on too many in one go.
Behnam
28:25 because.
Behnam
28:26 Right, they may do more than one go, and if it's sort of the thing they need to save your life.
Unknown
28:31 If they have to urgently at that point.
Behnam
28:33 Yeah, risk each one, and it also, he's got pain, you know, if it's because he's still got some occluded arteries or because of the stent, because he's still, you know.
Behnam
28:43 But yeah, because that forgets by its pits,
Unknown
28:46 Its place and that.
Unknown
28:48 Yeah.
Behnam
28:48 It's still heart side at the end of the day.
Unknown
28:50 It is.
Unknown
28:51 Yeah.
Unknown
28:51 Yeah, yeah it is.
Behnam
28:54 And if it doesn't seem, then there's still the message.
Unknown
28:57 So good about the, that they can do the stents.
Unknown
29:00 Hour though because that was that was the horrible thing with Nan and granddad.
Behnam
29:04 You're not even asleep. six
Unknown
29:05 Months to recover from.
Unknown
29:07 Well, yeah, you said.
Unknown
29:09 Um, he was sedated but not asleep.
Unknown
29:11 So, like, like, making sedation or just.
Behnam
29:15 No, I don't think I even do that because he was recalling what they were talking about.
Behnam
29:20 And the doctor said, and he's telling him, look at the back one, look at the back one.
Behnam
29:24 That's the one that didn't.
Behnam
29:25 bother with the back one.
Behnam
29:26 And the doctor saying to him, what's the back one?
Behnam
29:29 Like, he wasn't sedated completely.
Behnam
29:33 What is the spray they give?
Behnam
29:34 You know, the angina spray?
Unknown
29:37 Right, yes.
Behnam
29:37 That just drops your blood pressure massively.
Behnam
29:40 Right.
Behnam
29:41 And then it gets you a bit like, not high, delirious and light headed and not silly, even a bit slow, but relaxed as.
Behnam
29:48 well because your blood pressure has just dropped and sleeping.
Behnam
29:52 So I don't think they don't even sedate them.
Behnam
29:55 They just spray their arm and go on.
Unknown
29:57 Just spray that and do it and yeah.
Behnam
29:59 And fully
Behnam
30:00 Wow.
Behnam
30:02 Okay.
Behnam
30:03 That's definitely what it was like last time.
Behnam
30:06 Right.
Behnam
30:07 It's really, to be honest, when you see it like that, it's really not a big deal.
Behnam
30:12 It's not any worse than I.
Behnam
30:13 mean, like, probably ten to ten times or something.
Behnam
30:16 Really, that's painful.
Behnam
30:17 It's just, uh, if it's a planned surgery, you know, I wouldn't really take it as something to be worried about.
Behnam
30:24 But when you're admitted, I mean, how serious heart attack is.
Behnam
30:28 Heart attack, that's different.
Behnam
30:29 You don't know if it's going to happen, it's going to work.
Behnam
30:31 If they can do anything or massive damage, you don't know.
Unknown
30:35 Yeah, no, at 3:00, yeah.
Unknown
30:39 Wow.
Unknown
30:40 But just so awful that you were sat there for three hours waiting when he's already come out.
Behnam
30:46 And that was very happy about.
Behnam
30:48 it.
Unknown
30:49 That's horrible.
Unknown
30:50 Um, yeah.
Unknown
30:52 I don't know how busy, but it's.
Behnam
30:54 I think they come out of the test lab and they go straight into like surgical recovery because they need to be like properly watched.
Behnam
31:00 Like with two nurses, either side, like when you come home, maybe.
Behnam
31:04 Yeah, yeah.
Behnam
31:05 And then the sort of thing, where an hour to so.
Unknown
31:08 Some way that you can pass a note along, you know, and just.
Behnam
31:12 They were just so busy.
Behnam
31:14 They were just so busy.
Behnam
31:14 Children.
Behnam
31:15 And I think he might have been. or send it.
Behnam
31:17 I think, you know, it's in this computer anywhere where he is.
Behnam
31:20 She said, Oh, he's in the cath lab still.
Behnam
31:22 I can't say more than that because it needs to be revealed.
Behnam
31:25 reviewed.
Behnam
31:25 But she could probably see that he's in recovery and he's not in the march.
Behnam
31:28 Yeah.
Behnam
31:30 And they.
Unknown
31:31 Yeah, that's it.
Behnam
31:31 I think they, uh, they were just so busy, because I don't think he would normally have been in there so long, even.
Behnam
31:40 It's just that they weren't bedding.
Behnam
31:41 Right.
Unknown
31:42 And maybe didn't have anywhere to put him.
Unknown
31:44 Yeah, it's like.
Behnam
31:46 We were sitting in the middle of the cardiac intensive.
Behnam
31:48 care, watching all these people in such a bad situation and relatives crying and like, equally people sitting each other, nothing.
Behnam
31:55 It's like quite bad.
Behnam
31:57 But, uh.
Behnam
31:58 It's our software
Unknown
31:59 Situation.
Behnam
32:00 But I could see, I was just following the conversations of the staff and they were just trying to work out what's going well.
Behnam
32:07 Can you chase that doctor up to sign that and we can move him on to 37 and we can move him on to 44, because because that.
Behnam
32:14 Yeah.
Behnam
32:15 You know, I mean, they were ready to be moved on to like a normal ward.
Behnam
32:20 Yeah.
Behnam
32:20 Intensive care and they were just trying to get them out so they could make this.
Behnam
32:25 for the incoming ones.
Behnam
32:27 Okay.
Unknown
32:27 So it's in the Hallamshire rather than.
Behnam
32:29 No, no, no.
Behnam
32:30 Northern general.
Unknown
32:31 Northern general, right.
Unknown
32:33 Eight minutes to the Northern General.
Behnam
32:36 I put it in my car and it said 14 and I did it 11.
Behnam
32:42 But from when Gloria sent her message, I think it was about seven minutes.
Behnam
32:48 from when I started driving, because at this one time I was there.
Behnam
32:52 Yeah.
Behnam
32:53 To them arriving at the thing and then when my birthday had already been there for five minutes,
Behnam
33:00 So they didn't spend more than two minutes before he was in having.
Behnam
33:03 Before he was in the theatre.
Behnam
33:06 Wow.
Behnam
33:07 Darvin, but, you know, an emergency.
Behnam
33:09 It's very relaxed.
Behnam
33:12 Yeah.
Behnam
33:12 But when I called my 999, I got put in a queue and it was nearly two minutes till we answered the phone.
Behnam
33:18 And she said, Can you go and stand by the road?
Behnam
33:19 Because I can see it's like a block of flats.
Behnam
33:21 So that's our crew will nowhere to go.
Behnam
33:24 and anything, so anyone stood there and I was watching.
Behnam
33:27 I wasn't in a panic at that point because we were still thinking they're going to come and say thinking that it's probably gently going and.
Behnam
33:35 Yeah.
Behnam
33:36 And Yeah.
Unknown
33:37 So did, what happened about the windscreen?
Unknown
33:39 Did that turn up in the middle of our?
Behnam
33:40 No, I found the windship, can you just leave?
Behnam
33:42 Yeah, that's.
Behnam
33:42 You can't.
Behnam
33:43 Circumstance.
Behnam
33:44 Oh, don't worry, don't worry.
Behnam
33:45 We'll come back when you want.
Behnam
33:46 She was a ring when you.
Behnam
33:48 He's not going to be driving for this, so it's okay.
Unknown
33:50 No, no, there's no, no, no.
Behnam
33:52 I think if I live there, no, the phone I've ever had.
Unknown
33:57 Did you report it?
Unknown
33:58 I mean, I know the police won't do anything about it, but did
Unknown
34:00 Reported it to the police.
Behnam
34:02 Yes, you're right.
Behnam
34:02 For the insurance.
Behnam
34:03 They gave a crime number, that's it.
Behnam
34:05 Yeah.
Behnam
34:06 It's not an accidental one.
Behnam
34:08 You can see along the bottom of the windscreen, three places it's been struck.
Behnam
34:14 Struck?
Unknown
34:14 30 hours.
Behnam
34:16 And that was on Friday, because I took Sam home in the evenings and Gloria had gone to the car at 8 a.m.
Behnam
34:25 to get something out and she checked it.
Behnam
34:26 She said, I always check it.
Behnam
34:28 I'm absolutely fascinating wasn't it.
Behnam
34:30 So it happened in the daytime.
Behnam
34:33 Right.
Unknown
34:34 So, where was it parked?
Unknown
34:37 What was sort of.
Unknown
34:38 By the front?
Unknown
34:39 Really wrong bias or not?
Behnam
34:41 If there's not a space at the very bottom, there's the middle level.
Unknown
34:48 The next level.
Unknown
34:48 up, yeah, where the garage, the garage level.
Unknown
34:50 Yeah.
Behnam
34:51 To pass in there and somebody once said, I remember they used to say to me, You can't park here because you don't live in this park or something stupid and I just ignored.
Behnam
34:59 Right,
Unknown
35:00 Yeah.
Behnam
35:02 And he said, Oh, sometimes you're doing.
Behnam
35:03 I just make them laugh and I'll just talk.
Behnam
35:05 We'll probably they're not laughing.
Behnam
35:07 And he's been there for three days because he's always in and out.
Behnam
35:12 But and I occasionally been in hospital for three days.
Behnam
35:16 He probably got more upset.
Behnam
35:18 He took a hammer to it or something he had.
Behnam
35:20 I don't know.
Behnam
35:21 Really don't know.
Unknown
35:22 Well, no, no, he don't know.
Unknown
35:23 It wasn't like,
Behnam
35:25 Something fell out the sky onto it.
Behnam
35:27 You can see clearly that it's been attacked.
Unknown
35:29 Mhm.
Unknown
35:30 It's been attacked.
Unknown
35:31 What do you have?
Unknown
35:33 Oh, dear me, right.
Unknown
35:36 So, Yeah.
Behnam
35:37 But that's fine.
Behnam
35:38 Don't worry at the moment.
Behnam
35:39 That's what he kept saying.
Behnam
35:41 You know, the paramedics who want to get them in the wheelchair.
Behnam
35:44 But we can't go yet because they're coming to fix the windscreen at three.
Behnam
35:48 Stuff But he was a bit confused.
Behnam
35:51 Yes.
Behnam
35:53 Yes.
Unknown
35:55 Yes.
Unknown
35:56 But you were there to sort it.
Unknown
35:58 Thank you.
Unknown
35:58 So yes.
Unknown
36:00 So glad you were there with him.
Unknown
36:02 Um.
Behnam
36:03 Because I don't think they still would have called 999.
Unknown
36:06 Thank you for talking to Bean Shannon's, um, and getting him up there.
Unknown
36:10 And timing wise, because he's going to Spain.
Behnam
36:15 I know.
Behnam
36:15 So, right.
Behnam
36:16 He flexed a bit about that, to be honest.
Behnam
36:18 Anyway, I said, If you wanted to get a flight from Manchester, the two points, he said, Yeah, I've got my stock.
Behnam
36:24 He might go back to my.
Behnam
36:25 We'll see how it goes with Grandfish.
Behnam
36:26 Yeah, yeah, yeah
Unknown
36:27 That's what I was thinking.
Unknown
36:29 Right.
Unknown
36:30 Okay.
Behnam
36:30 I cancelled on holiday.
Behnam
36:31 It's been when Nana had a heart attack for.
Unknown
36:34 I know. 2001 and 2001.
Unknown
36:37 Yes. 25 years ago, my God.
Behnam
36:41 Yeah, a few days before 911 it was when we went without them.
Unknown
36:45 Yeah, that's right.
Unknown
36:47 Yeah, we were there.
Behnam
36:48 We came back on 910.
Behnam
36:49 We were.
Behnam
36:50 On 99.
Behnam
36:50 To come
Unknown
36:51 Back.
Unknown
36:52 Yeah.
Unknown
36:53 And wasn't that when there was the flood in Yarm as well, or was that another time?
Unknown
36:57 Yeah, it was.
Unknown
36:59 Yeah, but we came home.
Behnam
37:00 The last time we flew there wasn't a lock on the cockpit door.
Unknown
37:06 The cabin door.
Unknown
37:07 Yeah.
Unknown
37:09 Yeah.
Unknown
37:10 Oh, dear, right.
Unknown
37:11 Well, I'm.
Unknown
37:13 I'm glad it's it's all worked out so far.
Unknown
37:16 And I hope it's all right.
Unknown
37:19 Yeah, yeah.
Unknown
37:21 And how you back now then with all of that?
Behnam
37:23 It improved a bit, yeah.
Behnam
37:25 it had improved.
Behnam
37:26 But, you know, I was chatting with the doctor in there as well, because it slowed down some of his pills, because he spent so much time lying down in bed because of the back, because it was really bad.
Unknown
37:38 The back, yeah.
Behnam
37:39 And because of that, he's not been moving.
Behnam
37:44 He's been still, which is one thing.
Behnam
37:47 And then also, he been getting, he'd been taking lots of strong painkillers that they've been giving him, and he'd been getting offset tummy from them, so he'd been reducing the heart medicine.
Behnam
37:58 With their pharmacist's advice,
Behnam
38:00 Right.
Behnam
38:01 Like if you're not doing anything, you can take on, take that every other day instead of every day while you're having a.
Unknown
38:07 Right, okay.
Behnam
38:08 Thinking is for your back.
Behnam
38:09 So it's a combination of things that they, Hopefully that
Unknown
38:15 Will all get picked up more when like debriefs or before he gets discharged hopefully they'll have
Behnam
38:22 All.
Behnam
38:22 I don't know because there was plenty to go through that.
Behnam
38:24 time.
Behnam
38:25 And you know what it's like.
Behnam
38:26 And the doctor came and was halfway through.
Behnam
38:29 And there were so many questions.
Behnam
38:30 And I was he was very nice and caring.
Behnam
38:33 The two doctors on for the ten people in the Yeah.
Unknown
38:40 Yeah.
Unknown
38:42 Yeah.
Unknown
38:42 Okay.
Unknown
38:44 All right, then.
Unknown
38:45 Okay.
Unknown
38:45 Are you back home now?
Behnam
38:48 Yeah.
Behnam
38:48 yeah, yeah, it's raining quite a lot.
Unknown
38:51 Yeah, all right, okay, yeah.
Unknown
38:54 I've had, I've been doing things in the house here again.
Unknown
38:58 I've had Amy's boyfriend over,
Unknown
39:00 Yeah, yeah.
Unknown
39:01 And we've been doing stuff up in the loft.
Unknown
39:03 I've got lots of papers that your school book and you know, like the same things that you do in nursery and stuff like, that.
Behnam
39:14 Yeah, well, scan them in time.
Behnam
39:15 I will do it.
Unknown
39:16 And I'll bring them down and when you scan them for me.
Behnam
39:18 Yeah, yeah, but at any point.
Behnam
39:20 I'd love to though that, yeah, and see them.
Behnam
39:22 And then we can recycle them in our new larger.
Behnam
39:25 recycling bin?
Behnam
39:26 Yeah.
Unknown
39:27 Oh yeah, you've got your large recycling bin that you can go into, yes.
Unknown
39:31 Yeah, so.
Behnam
39:32 I still went out last night, 2:00 and half full.
Unknown
39:35 Oh, wow, that's.
Behnam
39:36 And that's without even squashing the stuff, because I'm not bothered about squashing it.
Behnam
39:42 Or falling out.
Behnam
39:44 Yeah, but it wasn't even half full.
Unknown
39:46 You just squashed it to block.
Unknown
39:48 remember.
Behnam
39:48 Yeah, but I just brought all the boxes in full.
Behnam
39:50 These things. unsquashed, and it still wasn't wasn't even half full.
Unknown
39:55 Well, that's a good.
Behnam
39:55 It was a bit more than half, and I just pushed it down and I realized it was mostly air.
Unknown
40:00 Sorry, I think it's fair.
Unknown
40:01 Yeah. yeah Anyway, No, that's all right.
Unknown
40:14 I'll say I'll say night night.
Unknown
40:16 Yeah.
Unknown
40:17 Night night for now.
Unknown
40:18 But I'm glad you are right.
Unknown
40:20 And the host host Susan will do you see okay.
Unknown
40:22 It's okay.
Unknown
40:23 She's not okay.
Unknown
40:24 She's not off.
Unknown
40:25 okay, obviously, but, um.
Unknown
40:26 She's okay.
Unknown
40:28 Yeah.
Unknown
40:28 She was fine.
Unknown
40:30 How did Ann how did Anna get on at the, um, the trial for the new gymnastics class, was that?
Behnam
40:36 She liked a lot more.
Behnam
40:39 Right.
Behnam
40:39 The place.
Behnam
40:41 I don't think you've seen the other one, have you in drawing?
Unknown
40:43 I haven't, no.
Unknown
40:44 I just know it's.
Behnam
40:45 It's a new one, but it's a.
Behnam
40:48 So honestly, it looks a lot less modern.
Behnam
40:50 It's a lot old and less well kept.
Behnam
40:53 And the equipment's older, the little ones used, the modern equipment, which is the bigger ones used.
Behnam
41:00 And
Behnam
41:00 Have them doing as much hard stuff.
Behnam
41:03 So it was a bit easy.
Behnam
41:04 A bit more playing and felt like more hard work.
Behnam
41:08 And I thought that was brilliant.
Behnam
41:10 And she said, I'm really good at this one.
Behnam
41:13 So.
Unknown
41:15 Yes, it will make her look better because I'm not seeing poaches.
Unknown
41:18 Yeah,
Behnam
41:19 And also it's not drawn down.
Behnam
41:20 It's around the corner.
Behnam
41:21 Yeah.
Behnam
41:22 So.
Unknown
41:24 So it's not so far.
Unknown
41:25 to travel and that as well.
Behnam
41:26 It's like a ten second drive and it's slightly more expensive, wait a longer class.
Behnam
41:34 And it's on a saturday morning instead of like rushing there, or whenever, I can't, Sunday, whatever it was, I can't remember.
Unknown
41:41 That was, you went on a Sunday, but I didn't know what.
Unknown
41:43 So, so yeah, things were thought out.
Unknown
41:46 Oh, and have you, are you going to use the same calendar for Anna through the coming year?
Unknown
41:52 Because there's nothing on it yet and I was looking at past term something.
Behnam
42:00 Or something I don't know?
Unknown
42:03 Um, I'm going, I'm going to France.
Behnam
42:06 When are you going?
Unknown
42:07 I'm going to transfer to the, um, 28th October.
Behnam
42:12 October.
Unknown
42:15 October.
Behnam
42:16 You have to go from Stanford.
Behnam
42:18 Yeah, we might go somewhere else.
Behnam
42:20 I don't know.
Behnam
42:21 When I spoke to Bijan earlier, he said he's going to Yeah. for me.
Behnam
42:25 And I said, You're gonna fly over your other house, then.
Behnam
42:29 Your other home.
Behnam
42:30 Yeah.
Behnam
42:30 And he said, Yeah, you go right over the top of him.
Behnam
42:32 I said, Have you got keys?
Behnam
42:33 You've still got it for the half a period.
Behnam
42:35 He said, Yeah, yeah.
Behnam
42:37 I just can't stain it.
Behnam
42:39 I'm boring another.
Behnam
42:41 Well, I
Unknown
42:42 Talked I talked to him about that because a few days ago because I said I really wanted.
Unknown
42:47 There's lots of really good stuff in Toulouse over the summer.
Unknown
42:50 It's too hot to be in Toulouse.
Behnam
42:52 Yeah, it's going on.
Behnam
42:53 So, holiday.
Unknown
42:54 But like at the beginning of June or the beginning of September, it would be now would be really nice to be.
Unknown
43:01 Yeah.
Unknown
43:02 Honestly, I've done.
Unknown
43:04 That's kind of.
Unknown
43:05 So we can go and stay with flat when he's not, when he's not.
Unknown
43:08 Yeah, I feel him better.
Unknown
43:11 Yeah.
Unknown
43:11 So we need to talk to him about how how the key, how he deals with the keys.
Unknown
43:16 Because I was saying, oh, I want to come next year in these dates.
Unknown
43:19 And he said, oh, we're going to come back to Hastings sooner.
Unknown
43:23 So I just have to go when you're not there.
Unknown
43:25 But then we're like. skip off the kingdom and make a copy.
Unknown
43:28 I'm sorry to you.
Unknown
43:29 It's it's funny because you have like electronic fobs to get into these um.
Unknown
43:35 Yeah, well it's a problem.
Unknown
43:36 It's the fob.
Unknown
43:38 Um, the thought out.
Unknown
43:43 No, um, yeah, okay then.
Unknown
43:47 Right.
Unknown
43:48 Yes, okay, then let's go to bed and I'll wait for Beijing for another one and a half feet.
Unknown
43:52 Yeah.
Unknown
43:54 Yeah.
Unknown
43:54 And I'll catch it with the bus
Unknown
43:56 Tomorrow, if that's all right.
Unknown
43:57 Yeah.
Unknown
43:57 Okay.
Unknown
43:58 Let me know how things are going.
Behnam
44:00 And and first, I'm doing that.
Behnam
44:05 I'm trying.
Behnam
44:06 When you're going to tell her about it.
Unknown
44:11 I'll tell you when I see you.
Unknown
44:12 I've given you her a bit of a hard time because I've told her that I'm driving to Hastings and I'm driving to Stansted when we go to France and she's in shock about that at the moment.
Behnam
44:23 Oh, she's coming really to France, isn't she?
Unknown
44:26 Yeah, and to Houston.
Behnam
44:28 Oh, wow.
Behnam
44:29 Oh, so she's in Chocolate.
Behnam
44:30 She'll be driving.
Behnam
44:30 She'll be a passenger.
Unknown
44:32 She'd be a passenger.
Behnam
44:33 Oh, that's what we do. get a train.
Behnam
44:37 Well, I've seen them in Suffolk and Essex with the train that crashed.
Unknown
44:43 Yeah, I don't.
Behnam
44:43 I don't want to be on the train on them.
Behnam
44:45 Is that bead on the land that the train crashed on?
Unknown
44:48 It was.
Unknown
44:48 his line.
Unknown
44:48 Yes, I know we talked to him.
Unknown
44:50 He killed.
Behnam
44:51 Yeah.
Unknown
44:53 When you get killed, they got injured.
Behnam
44:56 Well, yeah, that's good.
Behnam
44:56 That doesn't happen on the motorway.
Unknown
45:02 But it, I mean, it's like 100 and odd pounds each to go down on the train.
Unknown
45:08 Yeah,
Behnam
45:10 I don't need
Unknown
45:11 A car when I get there, but it's, uh, it's a
Behnam
45:14 15.
Behnam
45:16 Yeah, fair enough.
Unknown
45:18 You walk to Morrison.
Unknown
45:20 Ah,
Behnam
45:22 That far south.
Unknown
45:23 Walking to your test score.
Unknown
45:25 They've got big more.
Unknown
45:26 Yeah.
Behnam
45:26 I thought they didn't know them down that far stuff.
Unknown
45:29 Um, they do.
Behnam
45:31 I bet it used to be a Safeway.
Unknown
45:34 It probably used to be, yeah, something else probably.
Unknown
45:38 It's a big, big hill.
Unknown
45:39 It's even bigger hill than yours, I think.
Unknown
45:42 I don't know.
Behnam
45:42 Maybe that's there.
Unknown
45:43 Coming up.
Behnam
45:44 All the more you can take the car with you.
Unknown
45:47 When you've got the shopping.
Unknown
45:48 Ah yeah, but you can't park anywhere near Binchan, so you park almost at, um, at Morrison's before.
Behnam
45:55 That's not gonna be driving.
Behnam
45:56 Double garage.
Unknown
45:58 He's got a double carriage.
Unknown
45:59 Well, he
Unknown
46:00 Well, he's not going to get time to do it now, but I'd say to him if he can clear a bit of space in the garage, my car would probably fit in it.
Unknown
46:09 And then he said, as long as the garage doesn't fall down on it.
Behnam
46:13 Yeah, that's true.
Behnam
46:14 The garage won't fall down on my car.
Unknown
46:17 But then if the garage falls down, then the house could fall down.
Unknown
46:20 So that's all very.
Behnam
46:22 I won't, it won't.
Unknown
46:24 Concern.
Unknown
46:25 so I don't think that would happen.
Unknown
46:27 So yeah, in his drive, it would be quite good.
Unknown
46:31 I've got a boot full of stuff to take down to him as well.
Behnam
46:35 Yeah, another reason not to get the train.
Unknown
46:38 Yeah, yeah, yeah because I was looking at sending parcels, but by the time you look at how much it costs to send the parcel, how much it costs to go on the train, I can do it in the car for a fraction of the price.
Behnam
46:50 Yeah.
Unknown
46:51 Yeah.
Behnam
46:54 Okay.
Behnam
46:56 All right.
Behnam
46:56 So, night for now.
Behnam
46:58 No problem.
Behnam
46:58 I that you could
Unknown
47:00 Big hug.
Unknown
47:01 Bye for now.
Unknown
47:01 And I'll I'll talk to you both tomorrow.
Unknown
47:04 Okay.
Unknown
47:05 Thank you.
Unknown
47:06 See you soon.
Unknown
47:06 Bye bye.
Unknown
47:07 Bye.