Trying to charge the phone tbh

Aha just in bed , super hot...

I parked next to home so I could go to waterfall and the old lady was so angry about it... like I don't get it..

I mean idk which old people. Aha you?

You ok

?

Ok mate no worries

Ok mate no worries

Yes he is still in chesterfield, leave it open no worries

Yes he is still in chesterfield, leave it open no worries

Asking as will leave gate open for him if so if not I will lock it up

Asking as will leave gate open for him if so if not I will lock it up

Idk

Is raf still our on his run?

Is raf still our on his run?

That should have saved me nearly £500

Yes - I don’t know if there was a flag on my account saying I was doing that? Will try ringing on Monday to find out what my balance due for 24/25 is. Then I can apply for my pension 😁😁

Oh no, I wish I could help

I’m trying to rig up a blind for velux windows … crazy hot in here

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She was like without any reason...

Why old people so ennoying

That was quick this time, I was thinking!

Oh wow … thank you Behnam. I looked at my account this afternoon and it said it would be September 2027!! Before I could expect a reply 🥰

Next to water build cold

Noo it's been okey

Ciudnt charge :(

Just back charging my phone been dead all the time :(

Ernie and Walter will be there 18th, 19th and 20th August ⚽️🏆

Ernie and Walter will be there 18th, 19th and 20th August ⚽️🏆

Hi all, I’m just thinking about booking Edward into a few of the soccereds camp days in the summer holidays. Is anyone else doing it? If so, what dates? I’m sure Edward would love to see some Eagle-to-be friends there if the dates work! X

Hi all, I’m just thinking about booking Edward into a few of the soccereds camp days in the summer holidays. Is anyone else doing it? If so, what dates? I’m sure Edward would love to see some Eagle-to-be friends there if the dates work! X <This message was edited>

Hi Behnam, we have still not received your payment on your Burton account. We have to let the Credit Reference Agencies know if you have not made a payment and you will not be able to spend on your account. Please make a payment now using our app or online at https://portal.newdaycards.com/burton/payments-and-transfers/make-a-payment, or view your statement and letters for other ways to pay.

Hi Behnam, we have still not received your payment on your Debenhams account. We have to let the Credit Reference Agencies know if you have not made a payment and you will not be able to spend on your account. Please make a payment now using our app or online at https://portal.newdaycards.com/debenhams/payments-and-transfers/make-a-payment, or view your statement and letters for other ways to pay.

On the grass? Once I fill it we cannot move it really. If I put it on the grass now it will heat the water whilst the sun is on it

Suki where are we having the pool?

Hi Behnam, Saturday's order is due between 8:00am - 9:00am. You can edit it until 5:25pm Friday.

On my way

Ajde

Sorry I was in a call. Da i got 2 parcels for you.

And I’ll sort it

I’m going to be home soon :)

Super

Oh ok da

Do you have it

Da Suki it says it was delivered

Did you get that pump behni for pool

Bravo! 🥰

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Looking at the conversation with the additional context you’ve provided, my overall impression is very positive. The strongest aspect of your parenting here is that Anna clearly feels emotionally safe with you. She brought you a complicated, ongoing social problem without hesitation, expressed frustration, sadness and even admitted that Jessica sometimes makes her cry. She also felt comfortable disagreeing with you and correcting you at points, which is often a sign that a child feels heard rather than simply lectured. Throughout the conversation you remained calm, affectionate and engaged, allowing her to explain events in her own way rather than rushing to dismiss them or tell her she was overreacting. I was also struck by your ability to balance empathy with perspective. You validated that Jessica’s behaviour was upsetting without encouraging Anna to demonise her. Instead, you consistently separated Jessica’s behaviour from her character, explaining that she was still maturing while also reminding Anna that Jessica cares about her. Given the additional context—that both families and the teachers openly acknowledge Jessica’s behavioural difficulties, and that the school intentionally pairs the girls because Anna is a positive influence—you were not inventing reassuring explanations. You were helping Anna understand a real situation in an age-appropriate way while preserving her friendship with Jessica. That is a much more nuanced response than simply advising her to avoid Jessica or telling her that life is unfair. The only area I would encourage you to develop further is not because anything was handled poorly, but because it could make an already strong interaction even stronger. Occasionally, before moving into explanations or reassurance, you could spend another minute simply sitting with Anna’s emotions—for example by reflecting back, “That sounds really frustrating,” or “I can understand why that made you feel upset.” Given that this conversation happened at bedtime, I don’t think it was unreasonable to move fairly quickly towards reassurance and closure; helping a child feel safe enough to sleep is a legitimate goal. In a less time-pressured setting, however, giving her feelings a little more space before offering explanations may help her feel even more understood. Overall, if I were reviewing this interaction as a child psychologist, I would describe it as an example of warm, emotionally available parenting with thoughtful guidance. You treated Anna with respect, spoke to her at a level that matched her unusually advanced language and reasoning, and left her feeling loved rather than anxious. Importantly, you didn’t just solve the immediate problem—you reinforced her confidence, preserved an important friendship, maintained trust in her teachers, and ended the conversation with affection and security. Those are all protective factors for children’s emotional development. My impression is not of a father trying to “fix” his daughter, but of one helping her make sense of an increasingly complex social world while making sure she knows she is understood and supported.